Author Topic: BIL creeping me out...  (Read 659 times)

piecesofapart

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Re: BIL creeping me out...
« Reply #15 on: February 18, 2018, 05:26:42 PM »
Pieces, is there a part of you that is liking the attention?  It may be worth asking yourself that question as that may be the vibe he is picking up on.
You brain is saying you don’t but maybe something deeper is enjoying it on some level so you are giving off signs of this.  Just something to think on......

Definitely NO~ like I said it creeps me out!

piecesofapart

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Re: BIL creeping me out...
« Reply #16 on: February 18, 2018, 05:32:06 PM »

Why are you are creeped out exactly , I agree it's strange/ different( not many people would find themselves in these exact circumstances) but I don't necessarily think it's creepy......you are both widowed and there is some comfort in knowing each other for a long time maybe that is what he is thinking.

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I did think of your line of thinking...and I know that is my BIL's Mindset too- I'm creeped out because I view him as a BIG brother-(I've known him since I was 13) and still as my *sister's* husband...so in addition a HUGE disrespect.