Author Topic: lasting effects  (Read 822 times)


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lasting effects
« on: September 11, 2015, 09:10:13 AM »
A random thing.  A sad thing.  I supervised attorneys down in the City before I moved upstate to have my double widow baby.  I just found out yesterday that one of "my kids" (they really weren't much younger than me) died of colon cancer this week, at age 31.  Before I found out how old he was, someone asked me.  Assuming I knew, there was no doubt in my mind, I said, "28."  Where did I get this?  Why did I think this?  I have no idea.  It's like my brain just made it up with no basis whatsoever.

DH died at 28.  So obviously everyone who dies young did too. 
widowed 2011 (DH 28)


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Re: lasting effects
« Reply #1 on: September 11, 2015, 09:52:20 PM »
Wow. All of these deaths are way too young. My DH was 53 you are all way too young. 28.. 31. WTF is going on?  Way too young!
Hugs to you Mizpah!
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.