Author Topic: I feel like I'm in hell.  (Read 1150 times)

BrokenHeart2

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I feel like I'm in hell.
« on: December 10, 2015, 11:25:47 PM »
Christmas is approaching and my DHs fam decided to invite his ex to the Christmas dinner. Nobody bothered to talk to me at all. Huh, she hasn't been there for 22 yrs. how f'ed is that.
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

widowat33

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2015, 12:40:55 AM »
Very f'ed. I'm sorry they weren't more considerate of your feelings.

Torn

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #2 on: December 11, 2015, 05:10:13 AM »
 That's extremely F'ED up, who & or why did a person from 22 years ago end up invited?

I'm at the point of why am I even thinking about Christmas/Holidays...blah,blah.
   All my family has passed on & I always went to my wife's parents, but that 'feels' like less of an option these days.
 
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canadiangirl

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #3 on: December 11, 2015, 06:58:58 PM »
I'm so sorry BH2 - didn't they pull this other years too and you didn't go?  Don't they get the message?  Makes no sense.  xo

BrokenHeart2

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #4 on: December 12, 2015, 09:24:29 AM »
Thanks for understanding and yes CG she was invited last Christmas, is this crazy or is it just me?  I am done with them. His older brother died 2 months before him and has 2 sisters left.  I'm done with them.  DH would be so saddened by their behaviour.
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

Abitlost

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #5 on: December 12, 2015, 11:15:52 AM »
I'd say that's pretty high on the Eff'ed up scale. I'm sorry they did this to you.

Hugs,

abl

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Re: I feel like I'm in hell.
« Reply #6 on: December 12, 2015, 01:40:03 PM »
(((((HUGS)))))

I'm so sorry.
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

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