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« on: December 10, 2015, 08:36:33 AM »
It's my birthday today and I don't have my Rob.  He always waited up the night before to say happy birthday to me first.  I had no one to do that. I've woken up to some nice texts.  But he's not here to hug me for my birthday. I'm sitting in the bed crying alone.  I need him so much. I just want him back.  I wish I didn't have to have a birthday this year. It's too much.


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Re: Birthday
« Reply #1 on: December 10, 2015, 01:14:08 PM »
I understand. I didn't want to do my birthday this year, either - I ended up taking a nap in the afternoon and then my late wife's parents took me to dinner. I just wanted to stay home, but didn't wish to seem rude. It didn't help that my wife's birthday is the day after mine.
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Re: Birthday
« Reply #2 on: December 10, 2015, 04:38:56 PM »
birthdays are tough to say the least
I also felt I just wanted to skip mine
I am so sorry your Rob isn't here to wish you a happy birthday and give you a hug
take care
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Re: Birthday
« Reply #3 on: December 11, 2015, 03:27:50 AM »
Aww huge hugs Fuchsia, huge hugs :'(

My first birthday without him was 22 days after he died, I was too numb to take it all in.
Thinking of you and sending love and good thoughts your way

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Re: Birthday
« Reply #4 on: December 11, 2015, 02:20:53 PM »
I'm really sorry you are having to go through your birthday without your love.. I too had to go through that, and it was very hard
Everything about this is very hard, I too just want my husband back...
Forever incomplete, and broken without you....