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rifatheroffour

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #75 on: May 09, 2015, 08:01:41 PM »
I just got back from a trip to BJ's with DS#3.  Spent all day doing laundry and clearing out the attic space, but that's for another post ;)
DS#1 is out with the GF, DS#2 is at the movies with friends and DD is at a festival with a friend, I am waiting for her call to go get her.  My kids have much more active social lives than I do!  I will continue with laundry for the evening and getting photos gathered for tomorrow.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #76 on: May 09, 2015, 08:12:08 PM »
Sounds super fun riff :).
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #77 on: May 09, 2015, 08:29:17 PM »
I took my daughters to Avengers Day at the Hall of Heros today. Fun day! Now we're just hanging out at home and relaxing. I cleaned my whole house yesterday, but you wouldn't be able to tell by looking around. Cleaning the house with kids at home is like shoveling the driveway while it's snowing.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #78 on: May 09, 2015, 10:26:18 PM »
All I'm doing tonight is preparing for Mother's Day tomorrow.
I was going to send my mom flowers but they're so darned expensive, I couldn't afford it so I bought a really nice bouquet at the grocery store today.
I'm going to arrange them in a vase, add some ribbon, a card & take them to her tomorrow & spend the afternoon visiting.
My mom & I have been on the outs for awhile so I'm hoping this'll make us both feel better. I just got off the phone with her & she seemed happy to hear from me so am looking forward to it with a sense of relief. I think it's going to be a pretty good day...

It's getting warm here & I'm digging through my summer clothes.
I've been working on a tan this past month. Think I can actually wear shorts in public now without being embarrassed by my pasty white legs, lol. Feeling better about myself & ready for the heat wave that's coming... (It's 100 degrees + here most days every summer)

Relax & have fun tonight..
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #79 on: May 09, 2015, 10:46:07 PM »
I'm sitting here working on creating answers to 11 questions for my oral final in my communications class...and watching the weather radar.  Fortunately, I'm not 45 miles west of here where one supercell has dropped at least a dozen little tornadoes tonight.  Hopefully the wheat fields are the only things damaged.  It's pretty rural out there.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #80 on: May 09, 2015, 11:48:43 PM »
I'm home and in my stunning California Midwives Association t-shirt, which is so old and peppered with holes that it looks like I took a shotgun blast at some point... but I digress. Anyway, I actually had a fairly exciting Sat night for once. My sister just released her first album, and she had a party/gig to celebrate at a local theater. I wore a dress, hose, heels, makeup, the whole nine yards-- haven't done that in years and years-- and she had me come up and sing one of our old standbys with her. It was pretty awesome (video on FB, if you happen to be my friend, or want to be!), and I had a blast. I felt-- alive. For the first time in a long time. It was kind of amazing. :)

Everyone remember that smiley right there-- I have no long how long this high will last, or when I'll feel like smiling again. But I'm enjoying it right now.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #81 on: May 09, 2015, 11:57:16 PM »
Jen, I was blown away by the video. It was great! I LOVED seeing a genuine smile. It really made my day. You have some serious talent, lady!
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #82 on: May 10, 2015, 12:02:53 AM »
Aww, thanks! My sister is the pro, I'm just an enthusiastic amateur, but I do enjoy it. I haven't done anything like that in-- well, almost a year and a half. I do community theater, the last play I was in was summer 2013-- but I'm doing another one right now. (We open Thurs!) Maybe it's progress?
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #83 on: May 10, 2015, 12:09:01 AM »
I think it is progress :)
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

Don't be concerned about being disloyal to your pain by being joyous. - Hazrat Inayat Khan

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #84 on: May 10, 2015, 01:34:36 AM »
I spent the evening in my jeans and favorite sweater, curled up by the fire, eating popcorn, and watching "The Gods Must be Crazy" with New Guy.
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #85 on: May 16, 2015, 09:00:10 PM »
Hello everyone...saturday night again...I was hiking with the scouts this morning/afternoon then napped, and had some good text conversation with a friend.  Now I'm sitting with the kids watching Nemo.  I should go and change and do some sorting. Maybe even get to bed at a decent hour tonight...hahaha!
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #86 on: May 16, 2015, 09:29:24 PM »
Once again, I am in bed with a migraine. Medications have me feeling a bit dopey, but it is far better than the alternative of sitting here, hurting. I am in my most comfortable pajamas, cuddled up next to my furry, four-legged critters (Boo & Vinnie), and am finding the courage to go back and finish watching a few of the shows Kenneth and I had started together, before he died. Lots of memories are floating to the surface, and I am feeling very bittersweet and maudlin, as I know my time here, in this house, with his things, and all these memories, will be coming to and end in just a couple of months. Everything is beginning to feel so unreal, and I am feeling a bit lost in my own skin, these days.
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

Thank you, my dearest Kenneth, for loving me and for giving me the best 13 years of my life.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #87 on: May 17, 2015, 01:37:36 AM »
Tonight was my daughter's Sweet 16 party. A lot of love, laughs, dancing, and karaoke. Everyone had a great time.  I have a lot of desserts left,  am so I'm going to take some to the police department tomorrow for officer appreciation week.
Jen

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #88 on: May 23, 2015, 10:07:49 PM »
It's that time of the week to bump this thread back to the top, ladies and gentlemen. So please, tell us about your Saturday evening, which is, hopefully, far more exciting than mine, at the moment.

I am spending my evening texting with New Guy, since I can't go see him. My arms are lovely shades of purples, blues, yellows, and greens, and I look like a sad, little pi?ata, from all the IVs and drawing of blood in the last few days. Since I can't go out, I am sitting at home watching Netflix; and since I am having trouble stomaching food, I am eating chicken and jello. So far, the sexiest part of my evening was posting in the real sex thread.

C'mon, you guys are jealous of all the excitement in my life, aren't you?  ;D
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #89 on: May 23, 2015, 10:21:30 PM »
Very exciting night here. Fell asleep on the sofa watching old episodes of Chopped. My son just woke me up to come to bed. Now I probably won't be able to sleep.
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