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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #210 on: October 03, 2015, 06:46:05 PM »
Managed to get the bulk trash out before 6 am, actually took it all out around 4 am...there are perks to being an insomniac! Finished my grocery shopping only to realize that the one thing I HAD to get (dog food) was forgotten. So...I will be going back tonight. Currently doing the laundry, just finished loading the dishwasher and plan to start cooking dinner in about 20 minutes. Living the dream!!

And no....I haven't hooked up the stereo, yet! :P

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #211 on: October 03, 2015, 06:57:40 PM »
Home moping tonight.  The weather turned cool suddenly.  I don't want to turn the heat on, since the temps will be back up in a couple of days.  I agreed to help at a community rocket launch tomorrow...something I always did with John...and now I don't want to do it.  This is the time of year I moved to Kansas, to be with him...5 years ago.  I just keep thinking...how is this now my life?  I'm having a hard time staying in the present or looking forward tonight.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #212 on: October 03, 2015, 07:25:01 PM »
Soccer fields this morning...brrr! It was less than 50 degrees and very windy. Back home to warm up. Then we went to an outdoor  police officer appreciation event. My wardrobe for today was 2 pairs of socks, 2 pairs of pants,  shirt, sweatshirt, coat, hat, and gloves. We had a great time!  They have inflatables,  sport events, and gun range, live music, zip line, rock wall, helicopter rides, and tons of food. My daughters look forward to it every year. Now we're home all warm and cozy. My youngest daughter is staying with my in-laws.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #213 on: October 03, 2015, 08:01:04 PM »
Upper respiratory virus and jammies. On the plus side, my Kentucky visitors are here taking excellent care of me. On the minus side, I should be having fun for a change. Nonetheless, I know I am very lucky today.
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

Don't be concerned about being disloyal to your pain by being joyous. - Hazrat Inayat Khan

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #214 on: October 03, 2015, 08:01:37 PM »
Never left the house today, stayed in sweats all day, made clam chowder and studied for a big exam Monday.  New guy and his boys came over for chowder and now it's just my youngest and I watching Jimmy Fallon on the DVR (our favorite happy fix) and I'm still wearing the same sweats.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #215 on: October 03, 2015, 08:40:36 PM »
Oooh, clam chowder! That sounds good on this chilly evening! Well, now I know what I'm making for supper at least. I've been so uninspired to make anything lately, tho have always loved cooking.

So clam chowder & more reruns of Quantum Leap it is! Boy, my life is exciting.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #216 on: October 03, 2015, 10:07:49 PM »
I should've looked for Quantum Leap. Instead, I watched the first five minutes of Sleepless in Seattle, and now I'm in my room, sobbing and trying to see through tears to type.  :'(  Haven't seen that movie in 20 years, and I guess it'll be at least 20 more before I try again. And I thought I was doing pretty well... :(
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #217 on: October 03, 2015, 10:38:58 PM »
Just watched two episodes of Fear The Walking Dead with my daughter, so we are caught up for the finale tomorrow night. I started watching it so it is something we can do together, instead of sitting alone while she's in her room doing her thing. Now I'm hoping I can sleep.

Hugs to you all tonight...
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #218 on: October 24, 2015, 10:20:13 PM »
Sigh. Left for dinner for my mom'said birthday at one of my favorite restaurants. They canceled as soon as I got out of my neighborhood. Dressed up, showered, and had make up on for no reason. Being well into Saturday night, everyone else had plans. So, steakhouse was replaced with Taco Bell drive thru. Dress up clothes replaced with pjs. Hair do replaced with a sloppy pony tail. Playing video games.
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

Don't be concerned about being disloyal to your pain by being joyous. - Hazrat Inayat Khan

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #219 on: October 24, 2015, 10:39:17 PM »
Got into my flannels watched football and did a puzzle.  Woo hoo sexy Saturday night!  I hate being a wid as I'm sure many of you do too.  Hugs
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #220 on: October 24, 2015, 11:01:28 PM »
I hate being a wid as I'm sure many of you do too.  Hugs

Amen.
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

Don't be concerned about being disloyal to your pain by being joyous. - Hazrat Inayat Khan

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #221 on: October 25, 2015, 01:02:58 AM »
We left the waterpark around 7pm. Then we had a 3 hour drive home. I actually enjoyed the night drive except for the rain. Of course traffic wasn't as bad and the girls napped most of the way. Very peaceful drive.

Tomorrow night I have a date. My daughters don't have school Monday so they're staying the night with their grandparents.
Jen

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #222 on: October 26, 2015, 04:40:41 PM »
A date? *ears perk up* How did it go?? :D

... okay, wrong forum, but I had to ask.
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

"Dying is easy. Living is hard. ~George Washington, Hamilton

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #223 on: October 26, 2015, 07:55:43 PM »
Jen, we had a great time. I wish we would have had more time together.  Hopefully next time.
Jen

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #224 on: October 26, 2015, 09:31:22 PM »
Woohoo!!! :D  :D  :D

Here's to a truly Sexy Saturday sometime soon! ;)
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

"Dying is easy. Living is hard. ~George Washington, Hamilton