Author Topic: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!  (Read 67649 times)

lcoxwell

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #60 on: May 02, 2015, 03:20:38 PM »
It's only about 1:00 pm, where I am, but I doubt the rest of my day is going to be any different from the first part of my day. With all the stress, extra work (with my teaching assistant now gone, just a few short weeks before the end of school), health issues, financial worries, etc., I have had to deal with recently, I am choosing to take this day to do absolutely nothing.

I am still in my pajamas (the cute ones I wore, for the very first time, on the last good night I had with my Kenneth). I am pondering the fact that I am at a crossroad in my life, and need to figure out what I am doing with my life. I am missing my Kenneth, terribly. I am depressed, because I don't have the gas money to go spend the weekend with my New Guy; and he is working, so he can't come to me.

I'm also feeling a deep sense of loss today. My teaching assistant resigned, due to a very bad situation in her home and having to make an immediate move out of state. I completely support her, in her decision to leave an abusive, cheating spouse. At the same time, she was the only person I had left, here in my little town, that I was genuinely close to and could count on for help, when I needed it. She was the only person I could write down as an emergency contact, when I have to go to the ER, due to my migraines. The fact that she is moving this weekend, just reminds me of all the people, who have moved away or left my life in the last few years, which was okay, when my Kenneth was still alive; but now that he is gone, I just feel so alone and lost and empty.   

Pretty sexy way to spend a Saturday, huh?  :'(
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

Thank you, my dearest Kenneth, for loving me and for giving me the best 13 years of my life.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #61 on: May 02, 2015, 06:35:04 PM »
I'm still at work. I'll be leaving here in a few minutes to head to rehearsal-- I'm insane and agreed to tackle a play in the last three weeks before they open. For those two or three hours, I get out of my head and into someone else's, so it's a relief, but it's exhausting too. Home, pajamas, one last look at the board, then hit the pillow and hope for sleep. Back to work tomorrow. Try to stave off hopelessness for another day. Yeah... super sexy, that. :-/
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #62 on: May 02, 2015, 06:43:40 PM »
Good for you, Jen!  Wish I could come to the show! 

I am watching "Goonies" with an 8 year old.  Simply cannot get more sexy than that.

Hugs and cheers to all of my sexy Saturday night widow(er)s.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #63 on: May 02, 2015, 06:57:06 PM »
Hugs to everyone. I got some Mac and cheese takeout and am watching some tv. I got a lot done as far as chores and cleaning up around the house today.
Gone but not forgotten.....my Squish.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #64 on: May 02, 2015, 06:57:49 PM »
After a busy day of gym and errands and gardening with my 4yr old, I had homemade pizza at 5pm and now watching bad TV in my flannel nightgown and can't wait until bedtime! After bath and bed time for my son (soon!), I am all set to watch some Patrick Swazy movie in bed. Doesn't get any more exciting than this ! Oh and splurged and had 2 fudge cookies to make self feel better....

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #65 on: May 02, 2015, 07:45:54 PM »
Already in PJs and in bed, about to watch my third episode of House of Lies.  Kids are at a movie so it's just me and the dog.  Have to work tomorrow so I decided against the wine tonight and am having cucumber water instead.  Who is more exciting than me?!
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #66 on: May 02, 2015, 07:48:35 PM »
Beautiful spring day here. Pretty much the first one of the year. Participated in a town meeting style revote of the school budget this morning. Amazing process to witness - folks of very different views and strongly held beliefs engaging in civil discourse to arrive at an outcome. Then we had Green Up day - oldest in the country where the state citizens go out en masse to clean up the roadways of garbage. It is really nice to see folks taking ownership of the state like this.

Spent the afternoon raking, cutting up downed limbs for firewood and looking for wood frogs in the pond. It was a good day.

In my jammies now, listening to DD sing in the shower, two dogs curled up next to me, trying to decide what I might watch tonight. Good Saturday night to all my fellow wids out there.
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #67 on: May 02, 2015, 08:17:48 PM »
Going over Algebra 2 lessons with my son tonight. Woo hoo! Hyperbolas! Such is the life of a wild homeschooling mom who should have gotten more done during the week. Sigh... 

BTW, Virgo, when I saw the thread up again this morning, I thought I had lost a whole day and it was really Sunday morning. ;D

Sending out hugs to all you sexy wids and an extra especially tight one for lcoxwell.
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lcoxwell

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #68 on: May 02, 2015, 08:31:39 PM »
My Sexy Widowed Saturday Night plans to remain in my pajamas for the entire day and do absolutely nothing, whatsoever, have changed. My teaching assistant sent me a text a little while ago and asked me to join her and another friend of hers (from out of state) in packing up her things for her move. I am a non-drinker, but as she put it, I could sit there and watch the other friend poor shots, while my assistant and I cry our eyes out. Apparently, her husband's new girlfriend will be serving her with divorce papers at some point in the evening, too, so this night should just be a complete barrel of fun. Now, who could resist an invitation like that?

By the way SVS, thank you so much for the extra especially tight hug. Right now, I need all I can get. Love ya, lady!
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

Thank you, my dearest Kenneth, for loving me and for giving me the best 13 years of my life.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #69 on: May 02, 2015, 08:36:23 PM »
Ok, one glass of Reisling in, and reporting to Sexy Widowed Saturday Night.

My nephew's birthday was quite spirited.

Now, time for this auntie to get "spirit-ed"!

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #70 on: May 02, 2015, 10:47:32 PM »
We had an earthquake here today in Indiana!?!?!?! I thought it was machinery from a house being built in our neighborhood until I saw the news. Wow, crazy!

Not much going on tonight. Just messaging my guy friends, painting nails, and getting a card/gift ready for a bridal shower tomorrow. Inside the card I wrote "Cherish every moment together!" :)
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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #71 on: May 03, 2015, 08:32:09 AM »
I missed SWSN because I fell asleep studying for my statistics final because who is sexier than I am? So, SWSunday Morning it is. Same clothes as yesterday, same dirty hairloaf.

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #72 on: May 05, 2015, 02:20:47 PM »
whoops, I missed this thread completely, but shall joint y'all on  the very next Saturday!!!
Por que tu fuego a?n me quema, sin ti las noches son eternas,
tu aroma sigue aqu?, no me deja ir.. Por m?s que intente y quiera olvidarte, yo nunca lograre dejarte, cautivo de este amor sincero esclavo de tu voz.. Por que estoy am?ndote, so??ndose, aunque no est?s aqu?..
Y yo te esperare, amor aunque los a?os lleguen sin querer (Marc Anthony)

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #73 on: May 05, 2015, 02:25:57 PM »
...getting a card/gift ready for a bridal shower tomorrow. Inside the card I wrote "Cherish every moment together!" :)

Tim's cousin got married on 4/10 (4 days after my sadiversary...I was kinda a mess at the ceremony) and I wrote the same thing on the card I got them.

"Love each other.  Take care of each other.  Cherish every moment."
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MissingSquish

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Re: Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!
« Reply #74 on: May 09, 2015, 06:46:10 PM »
Saturday night is again upon us. Just finished watching Iron Man 3, got a pedicure this afternoon and am just hanging with the dog.
Gone but not forgotten.....my Squish.

Miss you forever baby girl, my Pru!