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SailorGirl

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x2
« on: February 29, 2016, 12:25:56 PM »
It happened again.  Less than two years after losing my husband, I have just lost the second most important man in my life.  My best friend/boyfriend Ryan went missing in the marina where our boat was docked on Feb 20.  We had broken up about 6 months prior due to issues with his family; he was living on the boat, but we still talked occasionally.  I was standing in line at the corner grocery store on Saturday when I saw the fire truck and rescue boat racing down my street.  They recovered his body in the water around 1,000 feet from my house, which is roughly 1.5 miles from the marina.  He was 39.  I watched the recovery from my living room window.  Everyone said he came back to me. To top it off, today is my late husband's birthday.  He was a leap day baby, so this is his first 'real' birthday since his passing.    Hy heart hurts so badly.

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« Reply #1 on: February 29, 2016, 12:37:45 PM »
SailorGirl I am so so sorry. My heart is with you. Hugs

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« Reply #2 on: February 29, 2016, 01:14:59 PM »
My heart hurts for you, SailorGirl. It just isn't fair. I wish I knew the right thing to say, but my thoughts are with you. Just heartbroken.
On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good. - Unknown

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« Reply #3 on: February 29, 2016, 01:19:15 PM »
So very sorry.  Big hugs.
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« Reply #4 on: February 29, 2016, 01:26:21 PM »
SailorGirl, I am so very sorry. To have to go through this hurt once is terrible, and I can't even imagine what you are going through now. This just sucks so badly.
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« Reply #5 on: February 29, 2016, 02:14:27 PM »
Sailorgirl - I am so so sorry. I was tearing up just reading this - this is COMPLETELY unfair. Please take care of yourself. I lost my husband similarly and in the body of water right around the corner from my house so I understand. 

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« Reply #6 on: February 29, 2016, 02:46:38 PM »
No words... I am so, so sorry. (((((((HUGS)))))))
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« Reply #7 on: February 29, 2016, 03:01:10 PM »
Heartbreaking. HUGE hugs to you.

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« Reply #8 on: February 29, 2016, 04:58:06 PM »
Hugs to you.  I'm so sorry.

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« Reply #9 on: February 29, 2016, 06:20:32 PM »
There are no words to say how sad I am for you.
You will forever be my always.

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« Reply #10 on: February 29, 2016, 07:30:56 PM »
SailorGirl - I am so sorry that this happened. Please continue to let all of us know how you are.

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« Reply #11 on: February 29, 2016, 09:15:22 PM »
I'm so very sorry, SailorGirl. Sending you tight hugs of support...
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« Reply #12 on: February 29, 2016, 10:09:41 PM »
I am so sorry. Hugs.

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« Reply #13 on: March 01, 2016, 06:28:27 AM »
I am so sorry.....

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« Reply #14 on: March 01, 2016, 06:50:35 AM »
I am so sorry ,..
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