Author Topic: 3 weeks. growing grief  (Read 2898 times)


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Re: 3 weeks. growing grief
« Reply #15 on: June 02, 2016, 12:32:28 PM »
It's so hard to process this huge awful thing without the person who helps you process everything.  I kept wanting to talk to DH about how DH had died and living without him - makes no sense logically, but makes perfect sense emotionally. 
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Re: 3 weeks. growing grief
« Reply #16 on: June 02, 2016, 08:58:12 PM »
Mrskro - thank you for mentioning that you haven't disconnected his phone yet.  I haven't either.  Keep thinking I should but then say "next month".  Once again, comfort in company.



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Re: 3 weeks. growing grief
« Reply #17 on: June 03, 2016, 03:38:11 PM »
So thankful for this thread. I was unmarried and no children. Knew my love for 3 years and was with him for 1 1/2 years. I hate saying that I was simply the "girlfriend" because it was so much more than that. We were forever but it was cut short. We didn't have that chance to move forward together. It's nice to know that I'm not alone in that aspect. I've been self conscious because we weren't married and most people here were. Thank you for accepting us all the same. So blessed for you all