Author Topic: I got this. Wait, no I don't.  (Read 543 times)

Blue green

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I got this. Wait, no I don't.
« on: October 22, 2016, 10:01:16 PM »
I was doing so good for a while. It'll be 11 weeks tomorrow since my husband died of a stroke. Two of my three boys and I were sick today and I needed my husband so badly. Isn't it funny how you think everything is okay or it will eventually be okay, and then bam...it's suddenly not okay at all.

mbanyard

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Re: I got this. Wait, no I don't.
« Reply #1 on: October 22, 2016, 10:39:05 PM »
I completely understand. My husband passed 13 weeks ago today and I was also doing ok. Suddenly yesterday, it hit me so hard I spent most of the day in bed in my PJ's.  I think we're both normal and this is part of it, but it's nice to know somebody else is dealing with this to.

MB
« Last Edit: October 25, 2016, 12:58:08 PM by mbanyard »
We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same....and I choose strong!

Bill1972

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Re: I got this. Wait, no I don't.
« Reply #2 on: October 23, 2016, 09:25:19 AM »
I'm going through the same random 'hits',
resigned to the fact that I will never be over this completely,
but I will be wiser and stronger,
once my mind is done processing this.