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Virgo

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Somewhere Between
« on: December 09, 2016, 05:16:20 PM »
I find myself somewhere between wanting to take a break from dating, and being tired of going places alone. Dating should be fun not overwhelming.
Jen

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klim

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #1 on: December 09, 2016, 06:16:37 PM »
yep!

In an ideal world dating would be fun exhilerating and lead to a magical love!



where are you ideal world????

SunshineFL

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #2 on: December 09, 2016, 08:24:34 PM »
Ditto.
I can't even muster up the mojo to make a new profile on any of the dating sites; everyone's posts here remind me of the ick, muck and mire...but tired of all the solo, too.  I'll keep an eye out for the GPS to Ideal World...sign me up.

Virgo

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #3 on: December 09, 2016, 11:44:48 PM »
I seem to be dating the same guy over and over.  Over eager in the beginning, steady, completely ignores me, then starts contacting me again.
Jen

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Lisa

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #4 on: December 10, 2016, 08:56:39 PM »
Take from my experience. When he ignores you, you arent dating. Dont repeat the mistake with the same person. It keeps you from finding someone right. Someone you feel good about.,it is not a race. I lived what you are going through. For too long. Now I couldn't be happier.
"All the waves must reach the shore before the water calms"-Ray ♡

Virgo

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #5 on: December 10, 2016, 10:27:10 PM »
I meant the same guy as in they all seem to follow the same pattern. It's exhausting. Thanks for the reminder to be patient. That is so hard.
Jen

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imissdow

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #6 on: December 11, 2016, 01:36:38 PM »
I totally agree! I hate dating. It feels more like a chore then it should. It should be fun, sadly I'm finding my "hang time" on dating is becoming shorter and shorter. I'm tired of being alone and tired of dating. (Sigh)

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Re: Somewhere Between
« Reply #7 on: December 11, 2016, 04:53:10 PM »
Yup, yup, yup, and yup!