Author Topic: Funny read but I related.....truth  (Read 712 times)


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Re: Funny read but I related.....truth
« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2017, 12:14:29 PM »
Thanks, it reminds this time of year I would raise hell about her cold feet on me. Now my bed is pretty damn cold year round without her and those feet.
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Re: Funny read but I related.....truth
« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2017, 05:07:59 PM »
Great read that more folks should pay attention to. As I've moved forward since my LH died, I had to do some reading about dating. Many of the 'experts' speak to what this writer indicates -- it's not our job to change a man (or woman, for you widowers) into our image of them but to love him or her for who they are. I did things that drove my LH crazy and he did things that drove me crazy. It's what we do as people. NG tends to be forgetful and it sometimes irritates me (like 'Oh, did I tell you about ...' regarding a story he's told me a couple times since we've been seeing each other). I then remember that it's not that serious and move on. If that's the worse thing I'll deal with as I seek love again, I'll take it!

Seek peace, and pursue it - Psalm 34:14b