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arneal

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #105 on: October 27, 2017, 03:31:04 PM »
You aren't alone, Sugarbell. Which is what makes this space so wonderful. We can share the dark side and have others who understand all too well LOL!
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twin_mom

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #106 on: October 31, 2017, 11:33:33 AM »
You so aren't alone - DH's ex literally crawled into the open casket during visitation, sobbing hysterically about what was she going to do now. I just ignored her as I'd been living with her  dramashit for 13 years.  One of my sisters had enough though and asked me if I wanted her to deal with it.  😁 Then a couple months later she wrote me this long letter about how she wanted to be friends as she had no one else to talk to about her grief and how wonderful DH was?! Lady, you made both of our lives a living hell, poisoned  the stepdaughters, etc.... I'm not interested in being your friend or having any contact at all with you!

arneal

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #107 on: October 31, 2017, 11:37:01 AM »
Amazing, isn't it twin? On the occasions I hear via phone from stepdaughter and her mom is in the background, she will often 'remind' me that she loves me.  ::)
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Sugarbell

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #108 on: November 01, 2017, 10:01:20 PM »
Yes TM she sounds like a complete nut job!

It just gets so old..I’m in a town with only 5000 people..I run into her at least once a month..I get the glare..like somehow I broke up their marriage..She did that all on her own long before I moved here.

This is why I had my “divorced 5 year rule” before. He’s worth it..but lord this juevenile bullshit gets old.
B.W.H. 9/24/2007

Captains wife

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #109 on: November 06, 2017, 08:07:41 AM »
Wow - just wow when I read this stories. So unnecessary and so not good for the kids. I am glad I am not alone in dealing with some of the same ex issues and can vent here (although I'm sorry all of you are dealing with this).

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #110 on: November 08, 2017, 02:50:11 PM »
This is ex is a damned if I do damned if I don't woman. She is going to find something to complain about me either way.

At a Halloween event at my daughters school in evening last week....My boys and I took my daughter..hundreds of kids there...Crazy Ex decided to go with her nephew and a sister to the event and take teenage daughter (NG's daughter)--Really crazy ex just wanted an excuse I think to run into people, be seen and wear a slutty constume (I know none of the parents dressed up we were there for our kids...she wears some kind of biker chick outfit..OMG)

So anyway from a distance I see her, her daughter, their gang..I am far away talking to other parents. Our paths didn't cross..But my daughter (whose 10) was all over the playground and ran into NGs daughter and they spoke and hugged each other and crazy EX waved and said "Hi" to my daughter (she has seen her over a dozen times and this was the first time she waved to her. I could care less)

So our paths didn't cross..my daughter and I left and went to another Halloween event and met NG and my sons. Crazy EX texted him a book 3 days later about how awful it was that I didnt' speak to his daughter because crazy ex was there and that she went out of her way to speak to my kid. Now if I would've gone over and hugged daughter, etc..It would've made life hell for the teenager when I left and her Mom would be pissed saying "You like her better than me" (yes that's the mentality I am dealing with)

NG laughed..his daughter told him we were far away from each other and she was relieved I didn't come over because she never knows how her Mother is going to react. Bitch is just nuts.
B.W.H. 9/24/2007

arneal

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Re: Those dating divorcee with nutty ex
« Reply #111 on: November 08, 2017, 04:29:35 PM »
... damned if I do, damned if I don't ...

Seems to sum it up best. So sorry, Sugarbell, but it sounds like you handled it like a real woman would  :-*
Andree'

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