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trying2breathe

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Sad week
« on: May 15, 2017, 08:07:12 AM »
Tough week for me - Mother's Day yesterday, today would have been our 24th anniversary, and DD graduates from high school on Friday.  I feel numb.  Don't want to rush my daughter's graduation celebration, but it sure would be nice to be a week older, ugh.
Have I told you lately how much I love you?

Needytoo

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Re: Sad week
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2017, 11:03:05 AM »
Big hugs to you. Big milestones, do you have any self-care planned for this week? 

Mr C

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Re: Sad week
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2017, 07:35:02 PM »
Tomorrow is my 25th wedding anniversary. Today was a full on meltdown unlike any I have had in months. Fortunately, a friend from the board talked to me for a while and helped calm me down. She is having to prepare for her oldest's graduation coming up as well. It sucks not having our spouses here on these special occasions. And I feel for you having to go through so many at one time.

Sending you hugs for this difficult week and wishes that you can find some moments within it to enjoy.
Mrs.C, You have been my Sweetheart, Best Friend and Love since 1987. You will be my Wife forever and ever and ever. Love Always, Mr. C

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Sad week
« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2017, 07:40:55 PM »
Hugs T2B.
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

trying2breathe

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Re: Sad week
« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2017, 06:56:50 AM »
Thanks for the responses, I'm trudging through trying to maintain some sense of happiness for my daughter's graduation on Friday.  The idea of taking time for self care is a good one, have to admit that it's not easy to come up with things that would help in that regard.  It's been helpful to make to-do lists and check it off as things get accomplished.


Mr C, big big hugs to you today
Have I told you lately how much I love you?