Author Topic: Social media....  (Read 564 times)

momtokam

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Social media....
« on: May 28, 2017, 12:21:06 PM »
You just never know what might pop up that you never thought someone would ever see....

I will never, EVER, second guess a decision I make, ever again.

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #1 on: May 28, 2017, 01:37:55 PM »
Alright, I'm biting.  What are you talking about?
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

momtokam

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #2 on: May 28, 2017, 02:15:25 PM »
If you think you are posting something about someone that they will never see, think again.

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #3 on: May 28, 2017, 03:21:46 PM »
Absolutely.  I take social media as whatever you post expect that the world can see it.  On facebook you can have private setting for friends only.  I have never assumed that it is that secure. 
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

faye

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #4 on: May 28, 2017, 06:38:51 PM »
Don't write when you can speak, don't speak when you can nod, don't nod when you can wink.

Modern corollary: the "enter" key is not always your friend.


Love2fish

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #5 on: May 28, 2017, 08:09:35 PM »
Truer words were never spoken Momtokam.  I hope your experience has some humor, something you can laugh about soon?

Even here on WIDDA our words will outlive us.  In that time they may be discovered by anyone who knows us now or in the future. 

May my words be sweet and tender
I may have to eat them tomorrow.

momtokam

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #6 on: May 28, 2017, 08:32:08 PM »
I'm not sure I will ever laugh about it. There is not much humour when someone posts things about you, without your knowledge or permision. Some very private, some disregarding past feelings. Granted, I'm sure he thought I would never see them....but....surprise!

Love2fish

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #7 on: May 28, 2017, 08:50:47 PM »
I hear you.  DW kept a journal during a time she needed healing over problems we were having.  I could have done without finding that.

momtokam

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #8 on: May 28, 2017, 09:50:30 PM »
I'm very sorry you had to find that Love2fish.
I can imagine how hard that was. Very painful to relive that again.

Just be grateful there were not hundreds/thousands of strangers reading it on social media.

arneal

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Re: Social media....
« Reply #9 on: June 09, 2017, 11:34:00 AM »
So sorry Love2 ... and momtokam, {{{hugs}}}
Andree'

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