Author Topic: 14. Almost 15 year old boy. And the sex talk  (Read 471 times)

Mrskro

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14. Almost 15 year old boy. And the sex talk
« on: June 09, 2017, 07:35:10 PM »
I would love to approach this with the puricanical view that no one has sex out of marriage,  but let's be realistic.   And really that's not ever going to happen


All you solo parents,  what did you say?  Who did you enlist?

As a solo mom, I've tried to  instill the "safe sex" talk.   I'm sure the girl got it.   The boy I'm not sure. 

How does a mom tell her boy about condoms?  Etc?    He's mostly embarrassed when I try then really listening. 

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Re: 14. Almost 15 year old boy. And the sex talk
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2017, 08:07:54 PM »
Realistically I expect they know the reality, they know the facts. I've approached it as I'm not going to inf orm you over and over again about the stats but I'm going to remind you over and over to be safe. And I made it easy by buying condoms that were kept in a bathroom. Now my boys were not very social so this did not really surface till they were a bit older.
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Re: 14. Almost 15 year old boy. And the sex talk
« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2017, 07:58:12 PM »
My son is 14 1/2...they know...they've had the talks in health class (at least in my state they do)

I'm pretty blunt with my boys...actually it eases the embarrassment. We talk all birth control...condones even if the girl says she's on the pill..Diseases...not to knock anyone up or they are on their own (no college)

Basically...I've put the fear of God into my 14 year old...but he knows I would get birth control for him if and when he or the girl needs it. I don't like to think about my kids having teenage sex (and he hasn't he got his first kiss just this year)..But we've always had open communication about everything.

Good luck...this is where I wear my dude hat and talk to my boys like a man half the time.
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Christopher

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Re: 14. Almost 15 year old boy. And the sex talk
« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2017, 12:23:42 AM »
I told my kiddo what I learned through Genetics, Epigenetics, Hermetics, Biological Electromanetics, Neurology, Neurosciences, Rei Ki, Psychotherapy, Psychiatry and a few other related fields:

Men store and retain the essence of every woman they have sex with. Basically, they physically and electromagnetically marry the woman. They cannot avoid this as it is part of the process, any more than you can avoid turning a car on and using the gas pedal in order to drive it cross country.

Women take in more than a man does, storing his biological electromagnetic signature permanently. She also stores his DNA in her womb and brain permanently. She physically and energetically marries him.

These are permanent and do not go away but they do have a register that ticks over when a death is confirmed, like a light switch being turned off. The light is still there, it's just off (figurative). Most of the studies conflict with the agenda to corrupt our youth so the funding tends to get cut when results like that are found and only curious minds that patrol ResearchGate and similar sites ever get to see them before they are destroyed by the investor(s).

So basically tell your kiddo straight up: Your body will marry her whether you like it or not. Pick a good one that you want to die of old age laying next to in a bed somewhere nice when you're so old and wrinkly that you forgot what you looked like when you were a teenager.