is anyone else the victim of being a widow to tragic fatal accidents to their husband?  In 10 years , My 2 wonderful husbands have been killed and I think I may be dying!   Hurting more than anyone should have to!

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I widow x2
« on: July 09, 2017, 07:54:28 PM »
AM I ALONE?  I have lost 2 wonderful husbands in a span of 10 years.  Very tragic accidents for both.  Not sure I will get through this. 


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« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2017, 08:18:42 PM »
No. You are not alone. I lost my first husband in 2009 and my second husband in 2014.  There are a few of us here who are twice widowed.


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Re: I widow x2
« Reply #2 on: July 18, 2017, 06:15:08 PM »
There use to be a guy named Glenn here who was widowed twice and has remarried a third time. Not sure if he still post.
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« Reply #3 on: August 08, 2017, 10:50:53 PM »
Before I turned 39, I was a widow for the second time. My first husband died a week before our one year anniversary at 28 yrs old, and my second husband passed away two months ago at 30 ... You are not alone.


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« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2017, 10:13:56 AM »
Just thinking about this I don't want to think of having another relationship. I am 11 months out but the thought haunts me sometimes.