Author Topic: Holidays  (Read 325 times)

Winnie

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Holidays
« on: July 04, 2017, 12:06:55 PM »
When you're a young widow holidays become a day to through not celebrate...

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Holidays
« Reply #1 on: July 04, 2017, 06:53:44 PM »
You are so right Winnie.  We get through them one day at a time.  I still don't like holidays anymore.
Hugs to you.
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

pamtxmom

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Re: Holidays
« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2017, 08:42:44 PM »
This year we just really avoided doing anything for Father's Day because it was too hard.
pamtxmom

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Re: Holidays
« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2017, 12:54:07 PM »
Holidays, especially in the beginning, are so so hard. Over time, I have tried to change what I do on holidays (for example, I volunteer and deliver meals on Thanksgiving, my son and I go away somewhere fun for the 4th of July) and that has helped. I try and see my family (and his) on and around Xmas with my son so we aren't alone at home.