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TornApart

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Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« on: August 30, 2017, 02:35:52 PM »
Have always wondered why i had never dreamed of him. Finally. Only a few seconds, but every angle of his face, the look in his eyes, his shape. Wow.
"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." Kahlil Gibran

Bunny

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2017, 03:37:16 PM »
Soooo Awesome! I'm happy for you.
It is a fearful thing to love what Death can touch.

oneoftwo

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #2 on: August 30, 2017, 04:12:54 PM »
yes, amazing
I dream of him alot- very detailed dreams.
The last one was touching, and as he walked away he had a dog on a leash- it took me all day to realize that since I'd had a dog put down recently she must be with him.
Mostly my dreams are calming - that I've seen him, touched him, heard his laugh
they do usually take a day or two to process

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #3 on: August 31, 2017, 10:07:37 AM »
Wow.  I haven't dreamt of DH in so long.  I sure would like to have one!
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

swilson

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #4 on: August 31, 2017, 12:28:55 PM »
In my dreams she shows up just for a "segment" but weaves in perfectly.
~ she's gone to Heaven so I've got to be good, so I can see my baby when I leave this world ~

Julester3

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #5 on: August 31, 2017, 12:32:20 PM »
It sounds like it was reassuring and a positive experience. 😊

JeanGenie

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #6 on: September 02, 2017, 06:50:58 AM »
I'm happy for you and it gives me hope that maybe there's still a chance I'll see him in my dreams. It's been almost 4.5 years for me and nothing...  Even dreaming (or remembering them) is rare.
I miss how happy I was with you.

sojourner

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #7 on: September 02, 2017, 09:03:32 AM »
I had one dream of him very soon after he died (rather unpleasant- I saw him someplace and wanted to stay and talk, but he brushed me off and just wanted to get back to work). After that, nothing for over 3 years. Now suddenly I'm having dreams of us, just doing regular stuff together. I can only guess somehow my approaching wedding anniversary has triggered something somehow.

I'm glad you finally got to "see" him!

ladybug

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #8 on: September 04, 2017, 05:12:06 PM »
I am glad you had a dream of your sweet husband. 

I have had a few of my husband.   I always like that feeling the next day.......it is like he came to visit me in the night.

Thank you for sharing.

donswife

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Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
« Reply #9 on: September 05, 2017, 06:53:03 AM »
I am lucky that I have had  dreams with him in it
such a funny thing ,he almost always looks like he did in his 20's
when we were first together...I like to think he gets to pick his best look :)

So glad you had a dream of your husband, hope it gave you a good feeling 
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