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Abitlost

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Need support on a really rough day
« on: October 10, 2017, 04:38:57 PM »
I'm deleting this because the person I referred to may be reading this board....
Thank you to everyone for your support!
« Last Edit: October 12, 2017, 01:05:59 PM by Abitlost »

sojourner

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2017, 06:19:04 PM »
Ugh... that's a big rotten crap pile of a day, wow. Shame on your former "friend;" sounds like she has a set pattern of misdirecting her anger, and in a downright sadistic way. I hope you can block her on all tech fronts.

And the court proceedings as well...

Feeling for you on all fronts, especially with your support circle being unavailable today!

Julester3

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #2 on: October 10, 2017, 06:45:44 PM »
Holy craptastic, not really a friend! That lady is taking out her own issues on you. Good riddance!

Sorry that probate went terribly too. I'm still in my required 6 month announcement/waiting period. I started late. I thought the house was mine but when we refinanced the bank took me off. We didn't notice. My lawyer found it.

Sucks all the things we have to do in our situations!

Hugs today!

Abitlost

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2017, 07:09:30 PM »
I'm deleting this because the person I referred to may be reading this board....
Thank you to everyone for your support!
« Last Edit: October 12, 2017, 01:06:11 PM by Abitlost »

Trying

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #4 on: October 11, 2017, 06:57:25 AM »
I hope today is a brighter day for you.  Your "friend" certainly sounds unstable, I would block her from being able to contact you as much as possible (phone, social media, email).  No one needs that kind of misplaced hostility in their life!

The legal stuff sucks, I admit to having been naive enough to think that common sense and decency will always win out and am learning how wrong I was.  I'm sorry that you are paying such a hefty price.
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trying2breathe

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #5 on: October 11, 2017, 07:39:20 AM »
Geez, rough day indeed.  The "friend" is certainly no friend, she's so unstable and taking it out on you.  As for the legal matters, ugh - just ugh.  Big big hug to you ~
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Mizpah

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #6 on: October 11, 2017, 08:08:08 AM »
I'm so sorry.  I'm thinking of you so much.  xoxoxo
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Abitlost

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #7 on: October 11, 2017, 09:31:23 AM »
I'm deleting this because the person I referred to may be reading this board....
Thank you to everyone for your support!
« Last Edit: October 12, 2017, 01:06:33 PM by Abitlost »

Bunny

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #8 on: October 11, 2017, 09:34:34 AM »
Oh, wow. I can't even...I'm sorry you are having such a craptastic time of it.
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sojourner

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Re: Need support on a really rough day
« Reply #9 on: October 11, 2017, 03:42:26 PM »
I'd keep my eyes open but try not to worry excessively. If you do happen to see her lurking around, don't hesitate to address the situation with law enforcement.

If she's hinted at any threatening behavior, though, you might pre-emptively call the non-emergency law enforcement desk to discuss your concerns, asap. They can advise you with any recommendations, and it gives them a little heads-up.

Hopes and prayers for peace to prevail!!