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Virgo

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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #60 on: May 17, 2015, 01:51:07 PM »
According to my dreams lately...I need sex. lol
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #61 on: May 19, 2015, 05:20:36 PM »
This thread has been so tame compared to the YWBB equivalent...

Describe those dreams!!
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #62 on: May 20, 2015, 07:59:56 AM »
I couldn't sleep last night because I couldn't stop thinking about... stuff. Sorry, Grace, I'm at work and can't go into detail, but... it was vivid. :( Cold shower, anyone?
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #63 on: May 20, 2015, 06:04:55 PM »
Just wondering if Jen is home from work yet... ;)
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #64 on: May 21, 2015, 09:05:12 PM »
I need an amazing bear hug and naked cuddle with Squish, wrapping his body around mine and making me feel safe.   

And then it needs to stop after a few minutes because both of our shoulders are going numb.

Actually I also miss the way he used to brush and braid my hair. Sent tingles down my spine.  Or a goodnight kiss and to let me fall asleep alone but when I'd wake up in the middle of the night, he was there, sleeping next to me.

I guess this isn't about sex much at all. Just missing him tonight.
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #65 on: May 22, 2015, 06:18:06 AM »
I guess this isn't about sex much at all. Just missing him tonight.

I hear ya MS.  I know not the hugs you want, but (((((HUGS)))))
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #66 on: May 22, 2015, 04:01:01 PM »
Thanks M. Sending a hug back your way too :)
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #67 on: May 22, 2015, 05:53:28 PM »
Okay, I have spent the last three days in bed, feeling tingly all over, and being poked and prodded, and there was not a bit of sex to be had in any of it. If it weren't for the fact that half my body is numb, I could use a really good, old fashioned roll in the hay, if for no other reason than to make sure all my parts still work.   ;)
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #68 on: May 22, 2015, 06:25:27 PM »
I could use a really good, old fashioned roll in the hay, if for no other reason than to make sure all my parts still work.   ;)

Heard that;)

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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #69 on: May 23, 2015, 09:04:39 AM »
Just wondering if Jen is home from work yet... ;)

Back at work today, still trying to crush every erotic thought that occurs to me. It won't. Go. Away. I've considered doing something completely irresponsible and looking for a hook up on Craig's List or something, but I'm too scared. I don't know how to deal with this. What will win out, fear or sex? This desperation terrifies me. I hate feeling out of control, but I need-- something. I can't get it. I'm so tired, I wish I could just turn my brain off. :(
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #70 on: May 23, 2015, 08:15:13 PM »
Do you know anyone that would be up for a FWB situation Jen? That way it would be someone you know and a safe. It's hard. I feel the same way. I started a FWB situation, but we didn't get very far (no intercourse.) It just didn't feel right.
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #71 on: May 23, 2015, 08:25:23 PM »
Sorry ladies, I'm feeling really mischievous tonight;

http://www.magicmikemovie.com/

That should add fuel to the smoldering embers  :-*
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #72 on: May 23, 2015, 08:30:50 PM »
Swilson, you are such a hoot!  ;D
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #73 on: May 23, 2015, 09:40:46 PM »
Joe is mine ladies. :)
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Re: kagill's Real Sex, what are you needing?
« Reply #74 on: May 23, 2015, 09:50:09 PM »
Virgo, I will gladly relinquish Joe to you. I don't need a man, who is better looking than I am. I just need an average, normal man, with working parts and a desire to make me feel really good.  ;)
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