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Really need to vent
« on: April 14, 2015, 05:09:14 PM »
So I had a really tough day. By normal means it was stressful and all I wanted to do was go home and have the support of my husband. On days like today it was nice to go home and all I would say is he loved me and we would hang out and somehow the stresses of the day would melt away. But instead I am reminded more on days like today that I am now in this alone. Sooo.... lots of crying today.


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Re: Really need to vent
« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2015, 05:45:43 PM »
So sorry you had such a tough day.
Its so hard to not have the one person who would not only listen but try and help fix the rough day
or just give you a bear hug ...I miss the bear hugs
I get the same feeling when I am pulling in the driveway and that damn reality hits me right in the gut
I hope just reaching out and having us here helps, if even just a little bit

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Re: Really need to vent
« Reply #2 on: April 14, 2015, 09:38:47 PM »
{hug} It's always days like these that emphasize the absence of our mates. The surge of painful emotions just leave me feeling drained. Glad we have supporting friends here to unload some of our feelings and understand the hurt.
~ she's gone to Heaven so I've got to be good, so I can see my baby when I leave this world ~


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Re: Really need to vent
« Reply #3 on: April 15, 2015, 02:53:34 PM »
Hugs. And right there with you on the crying. Hang on. One day at a time, one hour, one breath. We got this.
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

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