Author Topic: A time finally comes....  (Read 4754 times)

SimiRed

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #15 on: March 11, 2015, 07:08:45 AM »
Great post, Hachi!
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I still miss you everyday, I go forward, but my mind stands still.

Jen

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #16 on: March 11, 2015, 02:43:03 PM »
YES.

Thank you for posting this, Hachi. I needed it.
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #17 on: March 11, 2015, 02:58:58 PM »
This is so true. Thank you for sharing. The quote "time heals all" is complete and utter BS. We have to first make a decision to change, and then learn to adapt and change and go with the flow. Learn to live life on lifes terms, not our own. Time is neutral. What we do with that time is what makes all the difference.

AndysWife

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #18 on: March 11, 2015, 11:45:27 PM »
I really like this post. I spent a lot of energy resisting every bit of it as it was happening though. Thanks for sharing it again
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robunknown

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #19 on: March 12, 2015, 09:09:45 AM »
Sometimes, I refer to my "new life" as the bonus round.

Mac,
This is a thought that has pulled me out of the dumps some days. I think in one alternate universe, she never died. I think in another we both didn't survive her cancer. But in this one, I lived, and I ask myself, "What am I going to do with this extra time?"

Thanks for the OP too.

BrokenHeart2

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #20 on: June 30, 2017, 02:12:37 AM »
I was looking back and came across this post and I thought I'd revive it.  Good post Hachi, glad you brought it over from the old board!  I feel like I'm finally here and that's a good thing.
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

trying2breathe

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #21 on: June 30, 2017, 08:31:56 AM »
Love this, thanks so much for sharing.
Have I told you lately how much I love you?

Tweety76

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Re: A time finally comes....
« Reply #22 on: June 30, 2017, 01:27:31 PM »
@Hatchi a post worth the ones I saw 3 years ago in the original board. Such great words we know are true. Thank you <3 Been there, done that and moving forward :)