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rifatheroffour

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #390 on: September 29, 2017, 05:32:02 PM »
Fuck that everything I seem to do these is five steps forward and fucking four back. Just can't ever seem to catch a break. I'm so fucking tired of this life! Mostly this relates to work. My personal life is just fucking stuck...no surprise there, not like I'm doing anything about it anyway right now.
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hachi

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #391 on: October 02, 2017, 11:07:58 AM »
Fuck that maybe hundreds of people in Vegas are senselessly in this fucking club. Fuck fuck fuck :'(
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donswife

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #392 on: October 02, 2017, 08:29:45 PM »
Fuck that I hosted my nieces wedding in our backyard ,this weekend, with out Don
Fuck that he should have been here
Fuck that I had to do a speech in his honor and he would have done it so much better
 
Fuck that in the process I sprained my ankle because I over did it 
I just wish Don was here...every day 
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JeanGenie

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #393 on: October 05, 2017, 05:49:04 AM »
Fuck once again being disappointed and let down by family and supposed friends.
Fuck that I put so much thought and effort into these relationships and get nothing in return.
Fuck that I care more than them.
Fuck that I put so much value in these relationships.
Fuck that I let it affect me so much.
Fuck this life and the unending cycle of misery and sadness.
All I want is simple moments of happiness and to know someone gives a shit.
I guess that's asking for too much...
I miss how happy I was with you.

rifatheroffour

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #394 on: October 07, 2017, 04:19:22 PM »
FUCK!!! That's all...carry on...
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday.
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Bereft

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #395 on: October 17, 2017, 11:35:06 PM »
Friday would have been our 10th wedding anniversary.

Local relatives and supportive peeps are already questioning why I am not "over it" and I just want to pack a bag and bail.


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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #396 on: October 19, 2017, 12:43:45 PM »
Ef  the few people that still feel the need to "correct" my grief if  it doesn't  jibe with their vision for me. An inlaw was here visiting with other family over the weekend. Tomorrow is the five year date of losing D in that stupid mindless 100% preventable accident. While the two of us were alone in the kitchen having coffee Saturday morning, he brought up D, and eventually the conversation led to questions about how the kids and I and are coping at this point. I briefly expressed my thoughts the best  I could and my feelings at this point, being rawly honest with my mental state in terms of the gains I think have made as well as the setbacks in the brutal process of moving forward through this horrendous loss.

I guess I should have just said it was all fine and we were doing great, because when I expressed my feelings, I was met with , "Well, no....blah blah blah blah....moving on.....leaving the past in the past.....blah blah blah... what D would want....blah blah blah.... what is best for the kids....blah blah blah......and BLAH

Ok then, thank you for setting me straight with MY feelings.
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Adley

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #397 on: October 21, 2017, 12:51:08 AM »
Kj, I can't STAND when they do that. It's like they're trying to give logical financial advice. And it's so disarming because of the place it puts us; there's not chance to tell them how wrong they are. I'm sorry.
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