Author Topic: I Miss Him  (Read 1934 times)

Alexswife

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I Miss Him
« on: May 26, 2015, 08:46:08 PM »
That is all.

This grief thing gets so complicated. It seems that I'm always dealing with DGI's and having to face fears that I wouldn't have if he were still here.
It all gets so hard and complicated but at the end of the day I just miss him. Everything is about missing him. Every ache in my heart is because he's gone.

I miss him so much.

There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
 For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his. - Hebrews 4:7-8
Alex 1/31/91-7/19/12

MrsDan

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #1 on: May 26, 2015, 09:01:51 PM »
That is all.


You know I almost posted this exact same thing today.
You are the Bear of my heart dear,
And nothing can take that away.

donswife

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2015, 09:07:38 PM »
that says it all .....I miss him
god I miss everything about him
My everything

calimom

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2015, 09:15:52 PM »
I'll be thinking of you on July 19, Alexswife, as you know we share the same awful day.  It's natural you still miss Alex, at almost 8 years out I still think of Jeff and miss him every day.  It gets more manageable over time but never really goes away.  How can it?

Have you started your new job yet?  If so, how's it going?

Wish I could hug you for real, but know I hear your words and your pain.
"I'm breaking through, I'm bending spoons, I'm keeping flowers in full bloom" - REM

SoVerySad

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2015, 09:39:23 PM »
Yes, it seems that regardless what else changes, the missing them stays as powerful despite the passage of time.

Tight hugs, AW...
Without you, Baby, I'm not me.

Alexswife

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #5 on: May 28, 2015, 04:35:09 PM »
Huge hugs to you all. I hate the we have to spend our time missing our loves.

Have you started your new job yet?  If so, how's it going?

I start my new job on June 8th. Tomorrow is my last day at my current job. I am feeling quite emotional about leaving my kids but I know this is the right move for me.



There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
 For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his. - Hebrews 4:7-8
Alex 1/31/91-7/19/12

Lisa

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #6 on: May 28, 2015, 08:29:21 PM »
It always cones down to missing him. Most of the time I feel like I am getting used to it. But I have flares. Like now, the period before the anniversary of his death.
"All the waves must reach the shore before the water calms"-Ray ♡

Alexswife

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #7 on: May 31, 2015, 12:14:35 AM »
My heart hurts so bad tonight. I miss him. Who knew that the three year anniversary coming up would cause me to be such a mess.
There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
 For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his. - Hebrews 4:7-8
Alex 1/31/91-7/19/12

SoVerySad

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #8 on: May 31, 2015, 02:21:50 AM »
I'm sorry you are hurting so badly, AW. Wishing I could help dull the ache for you.

Tight hugs...
Without you, Baby, I'm not me.

MissinGrizz

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #9 on: May 31, 2015, 05:16:44 AM »
I'm sorry you are hurting. The missing is still there for me, after 5.5 years and remarriage. I miss my friend and just want to chat, hear his beautiful laugh....sigh.

BrokenHeart2

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #10 on: May 31, 2015, 02:07:52 PM »
I'm sorry you are hurting so much AW. Tight hugs
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

linda5

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2015, 09:33:49 PM »
AW, I feel the same way.  I even had some happy event happen, as my oldest daughter and my grandbaby flew in from Phoenix to be with me, and it made me miss my husband more.  Right before I picked them up at the airport, I was a crying mess because I wanted my husband to share in this moment.  I guess we'll always miss the love of our lives ... happy times, sad times ... doesn't matter.  We still want them back. 

Sending you peace.  Good luck with the new job.

Baylee627

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Re: I Miss Him
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2015, 10:04:36 PM »
So sorry, darling girl. It's dreadful, the aching missing of them. Sometimes, there are no other words I can muster--just--"I miss him."

Hugs and hand pats, missy.

Baylee
Though lovers be lost, love shall not, and death shall have no dominion--Dylan Thomas