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Random Thoughts On A Sunday
« on: May 31, 2015, 01:55:22 PM »
Get to know yourself.
There can be such a sense of urgency initially, best for me to experience the thick of my grief outside of a relationship. Don?t want those distractions and that confusion.
Unknown to say the least, married for 28 years.
Experiment, learn ? what a whole new world.
Introduction to dating, wow this is fun.
Not long after the 1-year anniversary of her passing, a 7 month long relationship.
Maybe she?s the one. Still a certain sense of urgency.
Things didn?t work out. So much learned. So much more ?grounded.? It was a good experience for both of us.
Less sense of urgency. Finding a compatible person, not necessarily an easy task.
Such a variety of beliefs, experiences and so much more.
I feel so good about myself. Dating is relatively easy.
So much easier at this age vs. prior to marriage.
Appreciative for so very much!
Take a break. How much time do I want to spend doing this?
Glad to see urgency disappear.
With a very wonderful woman now. Love the time we spend together.
Grateful for much. Grateful for the experiences leading up to this.
Glad that urgency isn?t a part of the equation.
Life is good!
« Last Edit: May 31, 2015, 02:13:36 PM by Mac »
Grateful for the past. Embracing the present. Trusting in the future.


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Re: Random Thoughts On A Sunday
« Reply #1 on: May 31, 2015, 02:07:16 PM »
Glad to hear it, Mac.  You and I are somewhere along the same time line.  My husband would be utterly shocked to know his type-A, over-achieving wife could ever have become so laissez-faire about so many things.  I say yes to my daughter more.  I do things I want to do.  And don't do things I don't want to do.  Above all, I'm trying to take the be here now philosophy.  I think Scott would want that and by god we've earned it.  We're a little eccentric by some standards but gosh it can be liberating! 


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Re: Random Thoughts On A Sunday
« Reply #2 on: May 31, 2015, 09:26:23 PM »
Great thoughts. Thank you for sharing. Yes, the sense of urgency does go away. It's nice to enjoy relationships with people again....