Author Topic: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread  (Read 69419 times)

Jen

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #45 on: June 02, 2015, 09:45:29 PM »
Fuck death. Fuck that I lost a dear friend today, and I never got to see him again. Fuck that there's a new member in our club. Fuck all this shit.
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #46 on: June 02, 2015, 09:56:27 PM »
this is the best thread ever. The only place i ever used that word. with gusto!

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #47 on: June 03, 2015, 09:49:36 PM »
My motto for the past while... Fuck it.  That's all
« Last Edit: June 03, 2015, 10:24:59 PM by BrokenHeart2 »
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #48 on: June 03, 2015, 09:59:20 PM »
I find there is nothing more liberating than just saying, "Fuck it."  Yes I'll raise your grade.  Yes you can have another bowl of ice cream.  No I am not taking the trash out tonight.  Yes it is ok to eat cereal for dinner.  Paths of least resistance can be exceptionally empowering.  Being widowed taught me this.

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #49 on: June 03, 2015, 10:29:56 PM »
Oh TS. I get your path of least resistance. I didn't used to be that way but I am now. I wished I had learned it sooner the way DH got it. That kinda makes me sad.  I can't change that but I have changed. Fuck it is where I am.  Just how important is it?  Not really then... Fuck it.  I don't say it but I do think it :)
« Last Edit: June 03, 2015, 10:33:04 PM by BrokenHeart2 »
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #50 on: June 03, 2015, 10:42:48 PM »
If ever I get to missing my foul-mouthed, one-legged, rough-around-the-edges hubby, I can pop in on this thread, and smile, just a little, knowing that he would have loved all the posts here (though the reasons people come here to post sometimes sadden me). My Kenneth sure did love dropping the f-bomb, and coming here, even though I do not use foul language personally, helps me feel closer to him, as odd as that may seem. Curse on, my widow/widower friends, curse on.
"The highest tribute to the dead is not grief but gratitude." - Thornton Wilder

Thank you, my dearest Kenneth, for loving me and for giving me the best 13 years of my life.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #51 on: June 04, 2015, 03:34:52 AM »
Try it Icoxwell. It's liberating. Fuck it!  Lol
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #52 on: June 04, 2015, 01:08:55 PM »
Fuck the fact that my knee is still screwed and the rude ortho office won't even assist with getting an MRI ordered, been calling all week.  Fuck that my kid may be held back in the 9th grade due to absences and I'm inclined to let him (He did it to himself!), Fuck that my daughter ran back to a relationship with the useless boyfriend I thought we'd finally managed to ditch, fuck that my sunroof leaks horribly and I pretty much need an umbrella to ride IN my car,  fuck that no matter how much wrangling I do the finances stay fucked ..... fuck that I have so much to be irritated about today lol
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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #53 on: June 04, 2015, 10:40:28 PM »
Fuck the fact that that sketchy-ass, triflin', nickel-bitch ex-husband of mine still roams the earth inspirating oxygen while my beautiful husband takes a dirt nap six feet under sod. Seriously, Fuck him. I hope *it* breaks out into incurable, weeping blisters courtesy of one of his side-hooches.

Oh, and Fuck the fact that his new twenty-sumpin year old startlingly guileless wifey is preggo with a baby girl. (My husband desperately wanted to be a dad, and he was hoping for a daughter).

Life is unfair as fuck. Yes ma'am, it is.

Baylee

Though lovers be lost, love shall not, and death shall have no dominion--Dylan Thomas

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #54 on: June 05, 2015, 09:02:06 AM »
Fuck people's attitudes. If one more person is needlessly bitchy to me for no reason I am going to completely lose my shit.
You are the Bear of my heart dear,
And nothing can take that away.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #55 on: June 05, 2015, 10:04:35 AM »
saw a quote somewhere the other day ....... Hell hath no fury as a widow born :) Get em Mrs. Dan
I can't look at the stars they make me wonder where you are. 
Stars.... up on heaven's boulevard
And if I know you at all
I know you've gone too far
 So I .... I can't look at the stars --Grace Potter

Jen

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #56 on: June 05, 2015, 02:04:26 PM »
Fuck the fact that that sketchy-ass, triflin', nickel-bitch ex-husband of mine still roams the earth inspirating oxygen while my beautiful husband takes a dirt nap six feet under sod. ...

Life is unfair as fuck. Yes ma'am, it is.

Baylee

Ooooooh yes to this one. And fuck that the son of a bitch has the unmitigated gall to call me with unsolicited parenting advice when he abandoned his children without a moment's thought or hesitation over 5 years ago. He hasn't seen them or contributed to their upkeep in that time, he just calls periodically and upsets them. Rat bastard. Tell me, why does he get to go on living while my sweet Jim, who literally gave us EVERYTHING he had, dropped dead?
I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other. ~Mary Shelley, Frankenstein

"Dying is easy. Living is hard. ~George Washington, Hamilton

MrsDan

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #57 on: June 05, 2015, 03:10:46 PM »
I mean seriously, I cannot roll my eyes far enough. I'm so sick of stupid pettiness.
You are the Bear of my heart dear,
And nothing can take that away.

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #58 on: June 09, 2015, 09:53:41 PM »
Fuck my realtor who totally sucks, doesn't care and won't return a text, call or email for days on end then when I finally get through she goes on and on about how busy she is!  I don't give a flying fuck how busy you are, you shouldn't have tried to sell me the house if you don't have time to do the work!!!!
You will forever be my always.

klim

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #59 on: June 18, 2015, 10:17:27 PM »
FUCK...FUCK...FUCK!

My younger son might have missed an electronic form he needed to fill out in order for his university acceptance to be completed.
 He was excited to have finally made a decision and now it might be screwed up.
I worry
FUCK

nobody to lean on
. FUCK


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