Author Topic: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread  (Read 67046 times)

kjs1989

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #315 on: November 05, 2016, 12:15:58 AM »
Fuck the electrician, plumber, carpenter, and mechanic buddies of my husband who said, "If you need anything call."

My husband left several small household fixes undone. I had a door that wouldn't latch, a leaky faucet,  a broken porch light, and a boat and lawn mower that needed winterized. I told these guys how much it would help me if they could get these things done for me. Well, never happened.

But, come  every October and November I hear from these guys because I have 200 acres of prime hunting ground rife with pheasants and ducks and they are itching to get out there. I have always been too much of a pushover to say no, but this year I said..."Umm...no...not this year."

I felt bad. I really did. But...I got over it.... because I  said yes to the neighbor who fixed my lawn mower,  the friend who closed my pool,  the friend who organized my garage, the friend who put up security lights for me, and the friend that fixed my car brake light.

canadiangirl

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #316 on: November 09, 2016, 01:30:21 AM »
Fuck ensuing market turmoil.

Mrskro

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #317 on: November 09, 2016, 05:38:27 AM »
Right there with you Canadiangirl.

Fuck! 

SoVerySad

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #318 on: November 09, 2016, 01:24:08 PM »
Fuck not having my husband here to wrap his arms around me and tell me we're going to be okay.
Without you, Baby, I'm not me.

Portside

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #319 on: November 09, 2016, 05:18:10 PM »
Fuck ensuing market turmoil.

Last I checked:

DJIA, S&p, NASDAQ all up big time now.

What a ride from down 7% to up 3% in 12 hours.

Always, always, always invest for the long term. Forget about short-term, and especially daily, volatility.

Mike
The war is over for me now. But those of us who did make it have an obligation to build again, to teach to others what we know, and to try with what's left of our lives to find a goodness and a meaning to this life.

MrsDan

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #320 on: November 28, 2016, 09:06:24 AM »
Fuck fuck fuck fuck fucking fibro. Fuck this pain that is so excruciating I cannot fucking stand it. Fuck looking like a hundred years old when I try to walk. Fuck this this fucking hurts!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are the Bear of my heart dear,
And nothing can take that away.

mbanyard

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #321 on: December 07, 2016, 12:11:32 AM »
I am so glad I found this thread today.....deep breath.

Fuck all those people who said they were there for me and to ask for anything t all, anytime, because they clearly meant just up to the point of the funeral.

Fuck the so called friends who never call, never check up and never have time to spend time together, for they think I'm so strong I can do it alone.

Fuck the family members on my side, who think liking a post on Facebook means they are being supportive.

Fuck the family members on his side,  for leaving me completely alone because visiting is "too hard for them|

Fuck the car lease people, who made me spend my hard earned money to prove to them that my DH had nothing to his name, with which to pay out their fucking lease.

Fuck all the neighbours who could not be bothered to even express their condolence on my loss, even though my DH did all kinds of thing to help them.

Fuck the asshole boss of my, now former job, who thought it was acceptable to yell and scream at a bereaved widow because I could not focus 110% two weeks after losing my husband.

Fuck those people who flirt with you, and make you think that you might actually not end up alone for the rest of your life, only to find out that you were being used to make the person they really wanted to date jealous.

Fuck not having the one person in the world who understands you still by your side.

and

Fuck the roller coaster of emotions, the lack of drive, the lack of future plan, and the fucking insomnia that has me up at 1:15 a.m. (again).

Ah...that feels better.......great thread all! Thank you.

MB

We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same....and I choose strong!

kjs1989

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #322 on: December 07, 2016, 08:42:51 AM »
I am so sorry, mbanyard.   Right there with you,  I drift along and then it all builds up, like the shit going on in my life right now, which is so completely overwhelming I can't even post about it right now.
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mbanyard

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #323 on: December 07, 2016, 01:42:07 PM »
Thanks! Today is a little better, but yesterday just needed a complete re-do.

MB
We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same....and I choose strong!

barney_12

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #324 on: December 12, 2016, 03:36:45 PM »
This could be long....I haven't really gotten any fuck you's out yet....

Fuck that after finally healing after a divorce caused by my cheating ex husband, I finally found the man I was supposed to have found 20 years ago and then love the rest of my life to have him die 3 months into our amazingly healthy loving relationship.

Fuck that his cheating ex- wife decided to take on the martyrd widow role even though they had been separated for 6 mths by then and she still had the boyfriend she had cheated with.

Fuck his family for allowing that bullshit and writing her as his wife in the obituary causing confusion and gossip in this shitty little town. Potentially tarmishing his reputation and playing into the " good Christian family image facade".

Fuck the so called fake friends who had nothing but terrible things to say about the cheating ex wife but are now best friends with her, now that he's gone. So much for loyalty.

Fuck people telling me to have compassion for her with what she's going through. Fuck that. She would have had my compassion and respect if she had done the right thing when he died. Instead of milking all the attention and sympathy because now instead of the town hating her for betraying him , they now feel for her and use their kids as excuses.

Fuck a lot people not understanding my grief. Minimizing and not validating it.

Fuck her for saying things about him while he's not here to defend himself. Like he neglected her etc that's why she had an affair instead of just leaving.

Fuck that our future plans won't ever happen. Fuck us sharing our future grandchildren together. Me dying at 101 and him at 87 so we wouldn't be alone without the other.

Fuck that I will never marry him. I will never move in with him. I won't grow old with him.

Fuck that we were in the middle of being in love and it was ripped away.

Fuck that Sunday morning I had a boyfriend and by 5pm I no longer had one.

Fuck that once again I have to start over when I have no desire to but don't want to be alone the rest of my life either.

Fuck that i have already lost my mom, my stepdad, my favourite grandma, my marriage, my in-laws ( since they chose to picks sides) and then him....my chance of having a family again.

Fuck that once again I'll be spending Christmas alone.

Fuck that my tree has been up for 2 weeks with only lights on it and I can't decide if I'm going to decorate the fucking thing or just take it down.

Fuck that he was the most amazing beautiful sexy loving faithful honest respectful man I had ever met and in one fucking split moment he crossed the yellow line on his motorbike and hit another car.

Fuck that he only had a broken leg and a lacerated liver but died because they couldnt get a helicopter or plane to fly him to a better equipped hospital because another accident had happened and they were flying " non life threatening " injuries to a different city.

Fuck me for saying this and feeling terrible but fuck him for dying on me and leaving me here to deal with all of this shit and have to once again start over.

Just fuck. Fuck fuckity fuck.....

klim

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #325 on: December 20, 2016, 06:32:09 PM »
Fuck the world!!!!

Ok maybe a little extreme but I'm moody right now!!!!!
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MR

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #326 on: December 22, 2016, 10:29:11 AM »
Fuck the pain as it keeps growing some days.

mbanyard

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #327 on: December 25, 2016, 01:12:08 PM »
I am in need of this today....thanks in advance, and bear with you:

 - Fuck people who always want you to reach out to them for help and support, for they should know by now that I am not able to ask for the help;
- Fuck people for being liars, users, and cheats (those who just want to see me for what they get that was my husbands, or for money they think I'm going to lend them);
- Fuck those so called friends who have left me completely alone during this holiday season, continuously making ....and then cancelling, plans;
- Fuck the family on both sides, who have bonded with me on the outside and left me completely alone....would it kill any of you to say Merry Christmas, or how about "how are you doing";
- Fuck those people who say they want to support and then don't even reply when you make a comment about being lonely, not being able to function, etc;
- Fuck those people who invite you to sing places, as a pro musician, and then don't even use you once you've taken the time to drive there.


A lot of FKN winners in my world right now and they all need to go to hell. I am so past being the patient, eloquent, gentle person. I have moved on to angry, bitter and jaded and think I will hang out here all along for the foreseeable future.


Fuck them all!
We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same....and I choose strong!

geminigirl

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #328 on: December 27, 2016, 08:38:31 AM »
Fuck my in laws for not mentioning my husband's name once on Christmas!

Fuck my mom for telling me “it's Christmas, you should try to be happy." Are you fucking kidding me?

Fuck my friend for telling me on Christmas Eve when I was balling my eyes out that “God doesn't give us more than we can handle." Fuck you don't talk to me about God. If there is a God he's fucking cruel, I can't handle this much longer!

Fuck everyone on Facebook for their family pictures!

Fuck my husband's boss for sending my daughter a gift card to Build a Bear. Great so every time I look at that damn bear I can think of how my husband died working for him. It's the dead daddy doll.

Fuck my friend for judging me for dating. Of course she would never date so soon. Fuck you, your husband isn't dead you have no fucking idea what you would do and you have no idea how much pain I'm in and how lonely I am. Don't treat me like I'm a slut, again you have no fucking clue!!
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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #329 on: December 27, 2016, 07:35:45 PM »
Fuck missing him so much I forget how to breathe.
Fuck the fact that when I close my eyes I'm back at our house and open them and I am back in this nightmare.
Fuck the fact that I can't wait to die so I can be with him again.

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK!