Author Topic: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread  (Read 66412 times)

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #375 on: June 20, 2017, 12:33:08 PM »
Ha, I'd ask him when is he going to call someone to come get the piles and let him pay.  I bet he will if you ask.  Try it, the worst he could say is no then you could let him know he can come collect his branches then.  Bet it won't come to that.
Good luck!
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

kjs1989

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #376 on: June 20, 2017, 01:06:23 PM »
Yeah, I am sure if I approached him he would do the "right "thing. I am just  mostly venting about how bone-headed, inconsiderate, and assumptive some people can be unless  you call them out on it. Hello!! I  am on my own over here! If you can't help me out on occasion at least take care care of your own crap!

BrokenHeart2

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #377 on: June 20, 2017, 07:09:12 PM »
Yes, I hear you.  There are just too many around like that. Vent away kjs1989!!! Evenually I have just gotten tired of calling people out.  So tired of it all.
Hugs!!
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

KrypticKat

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #378 on: July 09, 2017, 08:16:44 PM »
Fuck my Mother in Law for being a giant lady child. I've been civil since the beginning and went to a family BBQ tonight. Upon seeing me arrive she promptly made her grown children go home with her even leaving her food behind without saying goodbye to the rest of the family. The family was appalled and I was so sad and embarrassed. I guess when she told me last time we met she hopes the best for me that was bullshit. I'm tired of being the only grown up in this grief filled shit storm!

Julester3

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #379 on: July 09, 2017, 09:51:39 PM »
Ugh MIL! I am sorry she acted so infantile. I totally understand. I have a similar MIL who just last week accused me of not allowing her to grieve and from keeping the girls from her. She's mad that I did not inform her personally the day his headstone plaque was installed. She also went as far as to say my husband would be appalled on how I am treating her. OMFG! She's so out of line. And the kicker? I have to forego my own birthday in order to go to a brunch to celebrate her 70th birthday. My birthday is on a Sunday and her birthday is on Tuesday. I'm a mean bitch to have to ignore my own birthday for hers. 🙄 Fuck my narcissistic self centered motherinlaw.

meemzi

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #380 on: July 10, 2017, 12:29:43 AM »
Fuck losing my love and my home along with him. Fuck the health care system. Especially fuck the mental health care system. Fuck the voices that terrorized him.
"You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves."     -- Mary Oliver

Bubs: 1989-2017

KrypticKat

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #381 on: July 11, 2017, 09:21:00 PM »
Ugh I know @Julester3. That's just aweful. Not that you need to be the center of attention but some balance would be nice. It also drives me nuts that someone can walk through life like a living hurricane just damaging everything around them without remorse for how others might feel and us wids are put under a microscope to make sure we're mourning but not to much and not in a way that is inconvenient for others. Feel free to cry...just not in front of me. Ugh.

KatieMO

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #382 on: July 11, 2017, 11:00:35 PM »
Fuck the grief fuck the anxiety and stress and depression fuck the constant fear of keeping a roof over my head fuck my supervisor for putting me into panic/anxiety attacks for the last month making me think I'm going to walk into work one day and be fired because my brain is STILL FREAKING RECOVERING FROM A FULL NERVOUS BREAKDOWN SUDDENLY HAVING TO TACKLE A JOB THAT REQUIRES RESPONSIBILITY FOR THINGS I NEVER EVEN HAVE BEEN REALLY TRAINED FOR AND DEALING WITH MY HOUSE BEING FORECLOSED ON BUT MANAGING TO SCRAMBLE AND SAVE IT LAST SECOND BUT MONEY IS NOW EVEN LESS NOW AND JUST fuck it fuck it FUCK IT.

*sigh*

Oh a fifty cent raise yeah that really is going to help things....

Life goes on and so do I but damn it'd be nice for the world to stop for five minutes.

donswife

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #383 on: July 26, 2017, 08:44:46 PM »
Fuck that I am having one of those days
and Fuck that he isn't here to make it better ...
My everything

KrypticKat

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #384 on: July 27, 2017, 11:50:29 AM »
'You playing that game where you remember what you were doing this time last year?' (That's been everyday for A year)

'Im surprised how much this week is affecting me since it's the anniversary. I guess it's just another day though.' (Fuck you mom. Fuck you for saying all of that to your daughter mourning the first year anniversary of her husband's death.)

Mishka3086

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #385 on: August 25, 2017, 02:02:47 AM »
Fuck the "Justice system" for failing me once again by allowing the monster who killed my husband in cold blood to go free less than 2 years ago for another shooting offense... Fuck the fact that HE gets to choose how long we wait for court proceedings to happen. Fuck me for taking my husband for granted, and fuck this pain I have to live with forever 💔

MadPage

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #386 on: September 13, 2017, 10:35:13 PM »
Fuck this is my first post on this new to me board
Fuck that I needed to find a place that would understand my need to share after seven years
Fuck that I still have a lonely hole in my heart
I am FUCKing glad that I have a place to rant, that excepts that.... yes...... I want to talk about Gail
"One more day, one more time
One more sunset, maybe I'd be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do
Leave me wishing still for one more day with you
One more day". (Diamond Rio)

Wife of Tomasz

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #387 on: September 14, 2017, 11:44:28 AM »
Fuck my father for saying that I need to try to meet new people so that I don't get "stuck" in my grief, And all this as the 2 year mark is a week away.
Fuck my whole family for minimizing my pain, and acting like his death is no big deal.
Fuck them for not loving him.
Fuck all the people around me that are having babies and don't understand why I am not there for them.
Fuck this life without the love of my life.
Just FUCK!

jgib

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #388 on: September 14, 2017, 05:34:37 PM »
Fuck the insurance company...again...coming up 4 years now...

Fuck the thoughts that tell me he was the only one that could love me, accept me, and appreciate me for who I am....

Wheelerswife

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Re: Once again, ladies and gentlemen... the F*** YOU thread
« Reply #389 on: September 14, 2017, 06:14:44 PM »
Fuck this is my first post on this new to me board
Fuck that I needed to find a place that would understand my need to share after seven years
Fuck that I still have a lonely hole in my heart
I am FUCKing glad that I have a place to rant, that excepts that.... yes...... I want to talk about Gail

Hey there MadPage.

Good to see your name again...sorry for the reason.

But I get it. Hugs to you,

Maureen
Life is short.  Love with all you've got. 

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