Author Topic: Happy  (Read 1712 times)

Ants

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Happy
« on: June 08, 2015, 08:36:26 PM »
Just feel so happy right now.  My son is also happy.  We finally met my new guy's girls (It took 11 months!).  That went well.  We've been looking at houses (but not with the intention of buying yet - just looking and getting ideas for when we are ready).  He has been living with DS and I for a couple of months and it is going well.  He and I are going to Europe to meet his family this summer.  We are moving forward and my son is more than okay with it.  DS and new guy get along famously and have so much in common.  I couldn't ask for anything more.

I had no idea I could feel this happy.  I didn't know I could love like this or be loved like this.  I don't come on here very often but I just wanted somewhere that I could write that I am surviving and moving forward.  Somehow I made it.


BrokenHeart2

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Re: Happy
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2015, 10:38:56 PM »
Congrats to you Ants!  I'm happy for you!
I don't want it to be his legacy that his death destroyed me.
I need to honour his life by rebuilding my life.

patriciad

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Re: Happy
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2015, 05:13:33 AM »
That is great news!   Happy you have found some happiness.

Pat

HvnBound

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Re: Happy
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2015, 08:32:52 AM »
"I had no idea I could feel this happy.  I didn't know I could love like this or be loved like this.  I don't come on here very often but I just wanted somewhere that I could write that I am surviving and moving forward.  Somehow I made it." 

^^^^^^ This - makes me so happy for you!!! 



"It's time to start living the life you've imagined."

  --  Henry James

Sometimes you just have to die a little inside in order
to be reborn and rise again as a stronger and wiser version of you.
  -- Unknown

MissinGrizz

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Re: Happy
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2015, 08:53:40 AM »
I'm so happy for you. Congratulations.

Captains wife

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Re: Happy
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2015, 11:15:39 AM »
Congratulations ! I love reading posts like this....happiness "on the other side". Thank you for posting this - posts like this give me hope for the future : )

Mizpah

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Re: Happy
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2015, 11:55:27 AM »
Yay!  Congrats!  I love hearing this. 

(The whole "no news is good news" thing: good news is way better news!)
widowed 2011 (DH 28)

Melbar

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Re: Happy
« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2015, 03:53:32 PM »
Congratulations!  There is something about recognizing that you're happy again, and the gratitude that comes with it, that makes this time around very special indeed. 

klim

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Re: Happy
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2015, 09:39:34 PM »
Oh Ants that is great news.

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Re: Happy
« Reply #9 on: June 09, 2015, 09:51:41 PM »
Even seeing the title of your post, "Happy," made me happy! I always celebrate when a widow is enjoying life.