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Time Frame => Beyond Active Grieving => Topic started by: TornApart on August 30, 2017, 02:35:52 PM

Title: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: TornApart on August 30, 2017, 02:35:52 PM
Have always wondered why i had never dreamed of him. Finally. Only a few seconds, but every angle of his face, the look in his eyes, his shape. Wow.
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: Bunny on August 30, 2017, 03:37:16 PM
Soooo Awesome! I'm happy for you.
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: oneoftwo on August 30, 2017, 04:12:54 PM
yes, amazing
I dream of him alot- very detailed dreams.
The last one was touching, and as he walked away he had a dog on a leash- it took me all day to realize that since I'd had a dog put down recently she must be with him.
Mostly my dreams are calming - that I've seen him, touched him, heard his laugh
they do usually take a day or two to process
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: BrokenHeart2 on August 31, 2017, 10:07:37 AM
Wow.  I haven't dreamt of DH in so long.  I sure would like to have one!
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: swilson on August 31, 2017, 12:28:55 PM
In my dreams she shows up just for a "segment" but weaves in perfectly.
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: Julester3 on August 31, 2017, 12:32:20 PM
It sounds like it was reassuring and a positive experience. 😊
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: JeanGenie on September 02, 2017, 06:50:58 AM
I'm happy for you and it gives me hope that maybe there's still a chance I'll see him in my dreams. It's been almost 4.5 years for me and nothing...  Even dreaming (or remembering them) is rare.
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: sojourner on September 02, 2017, 09:03:32 AM
I had one dream of him very soon after he died (rather unpleasant- I saw him someplace and wanted to stay and talk, but he brushed me off and just wanted to get back to work). After that, nothing for over 3 years. Now suddenly I'm having dreams of us, just doing regular stuff together. I can only guess somehow my approaching wedding anniversary has triggered something somehow.

I'm glad you finally got to "see" him!
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: ladybug on September 04, 2017, 05:12:06 PM
I am glad you had a dream of your sweet husband. 

I have had a few of my husband.   I always like that feeling the next day.......it is like he came to visit me in the night.

Thank you for sharing.
Title: Re: Dreamed of him for the first time ever... 4.5 years
Post by: donswife on September 05, 2017, 06:53:03 AM
I am lucky that I have had  dreams with him in it
such a funny thing ,he almost always looks like he did in his 20's
when we were first together...I like to think he gets to pick his best look :)

So glad you had a dream of your husband, hope it gave you a good feeling