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  • Date Widowed
    05/25/2016
  • Name of Spouse
    Kirk
  • Date Widowed
    5/25/2016
  • Cause of death
    Bradycardia then he coded.
  • Spouse's Age
    63


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  1. beth_krkswidow

    Nobody gets it

    Shayla, I am at 2.5 years, am doing so very much better. If anyone had told me where I'd be now I wouldn't have believed them. However, his jeans still hang in the bathroom that he was going to wear the next day, his pictures are still everywhere, etc. They usually make me smile not cry these days.. but when I do cry, it's good not bad. You keep his pillow forever if ylou want. NO one has the authority to dictate that except you Four months is the rawest of grief time. No one understands that. They think 4 months is a long time. It's a nanosecond. H u gs
  2. beth_krkswidow

    Nobody gets it

    Amen to all the above comments. As Dr. Alan Wolfelt, a grief expert [if you ever get the chance to hear him speak, DO IT] says, Some of what people say is harmful but mostly what theybsay is "True... BUT NOT HELPFUL!" He's no longer in pain...true..,NOT HELPFUL You have the rest of your lufe,,,True..,NOT HELPFUL etc.etc They are clueless DGI's and I wanted to punch them in the throat
  3. beth_krkswidow

    New Relationships....Post a Pic

    Congratulations, Rob - Wonderful!
  4. beth_krkswidow

    Update and photo

    Amen! Congratulations and warm hugs
  5. beth_krkswidow

    Back to ground zero

    So sorry, TooSoon, that you are having to deal with this where you are having to deal with it. Sending hugs your way
  6. So sorry you had to join our ranks. You will be in this fog for quite some time. It's called widow brain and it's real. Look it up. You'll realize it's normal --as normal as is possible in this hell. One day at a time, one hour at a time, sometimes one nanosecond at a time. Gentle hugs
  7. beth_krkswidow

    Committed But Not Married (Long)

    SamNE, My thoughts. This sucks since you do indeed wish to marry. As to your questions..... your life your choice! Call each other by whatever name you want. And yes, your friends and family would be thrilled and honored to attend whatever ceremony or occasion you choose. If they do not even wish to attend, they do not belong among your nearest and dearest. Being able to attend is different from wishing to attend of course. Best of wishes to you
  8. Kk, I am so sorry to hear about your accident. Absolutely 110% understandable Don't know how you'd have any OTHER reaction. Just sending hugs
  9. beth_krkswidow

    Beyond Frustrated

    SO so sorry that you landed here in this hell called widowhood. So sorry for your loss. And sorry to hear of your frustrating triybles, Sending hugsyour way
  10. beth_krkswidow

    All the words I can't say

    23 months coming up. Yes I'm better in a lot of ways. Yes, "it" has gotten softer, as was predicted by the wids further out when I first came here, utterly shattered ,destroyed and brokeb. But other days I just want to crawl in the grave with him. Really I do. You are not abnormal. I think we're all crazy. Widowhood entitles us to that. Just sending hugs
  11. beth_krkswidow

    Third year anni approaching

    Sometimes kicking and screaming the whole way. But somehow we've made itbthus far. Hugs
  12. beth_krkswidow

    Third year anni approaching

    It's the 16th now. Iam sorry i missed the Sadiversary yesterday Hugs to you today, a day late
  13. beth_krkswidow

    Time warp

    My in laws predeceased my husband so I can't do this. But I think it's great that you can. Surreal as it was. I still haveall my hubby's pictures up. I don't consider my house a shrine.

Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    05/25/2016
  • Name of Spouse
    Kirk
  • Date Widowed
    5/25/2016
  • Cause of death
    Bradycardia then he coded.
  • Spouse's Age
    63


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