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ladybug

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  1. Beautiful....thank you for sharing.
  2. YES.......signs for sure. Happy for you.
  3. This is just my opinion. I would say RUN AND DON'T AND LOOK BACK. Sounds like way too much drama to bring to yourself and your sweet children. Wishing you the very best.
  4. I totally understand what you are feeling. I have been there many, many times with my dear sweet pets throughout the years. So very sorry for your pain. Hugs.
  5. OH YES I WANT TO GO TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Some days are good, but some days are just plain terrible. Of course I have learned through out the years, to keep those feeling to myself. I miss my sweet husband everyday and I know that people in the real world, would never understand my true feelings. Peace to you my fellow widow. Hugs.
  6. Wishing all a very blessed Easter holiday. This is my 10TH Easter without my sweet husband. I can't believe it has been that long. Time marches on and on so very fast.
  7. One day at a time. Good for you. Thanks for sharing.
  8. I was just wondering if a widow has to pay back to the social security, do they work with you. I work and also receive widow benefits. I just got my taxes done and now I think I won't be getting it next year. I may even have to pay back. I am a bit lost. Any thoughts. Thanks
  9. Thank you for posting. My sweet husband was only 55 when he passed. This year he would have been 65. The years have slipped by so very fast. Very grateful for everyone on this board.
  10. I wish I could have a do over. I would love to marry my sweetie again. Even though I know now how it would end, I would still marry him.
  11. A great adventure and fun night was had by all. Thanks.
  12. Thank you for sharing. I loved every word. Thanks.
  13. I understand what you are saying. I have a numb feeling about life now a days. I have that feeling inside but I try and hide it from the world. No one in my office would ever guess that I have a numb feeling about life. I understand your feeling all too well. Thanks for sharing.
  14. He was a very generous man when it came to me. He never denied me anything I wanted. I was not so generous. I wish I could have a do over, on many of our times together.
  15. The milestones are the worst. I understand your pain.
  16. You are not being unreasonable. In my opinion, there are a lot of strange folks in this world.......she sounds like she is one of the strange ones.......just my opinion.
  17. I agree, those two deserve each other. So very sorry you are hurting. Things will get better....you deserve so much better. Sending you good thoughts for the week ahead.
  18. I also thought that I would have a special person in my life by now.....but it has not happened yet. It has been 9 summers since I have been a widow. I have not found the special one, but I am going to keep looking. We never know when they could walk into our lives. Thanks for sharing, I don't feel so alone.
  19. So very sad to hear this news. May he find comfort and peace.
  20. I am glad you had a dream of your sweet husband. I have had a few of my husband. I always like that feeling the next day.......it is like he came to visit me in the night. Thank you for sharing.
  21. Since I am alone now, I buy the meals already made at the grocery store deli. You are so very right .......don't tell anyone in the real world about it. They would have way too much to say about it..... I learned that lesson years ago when I was first a widow. Thank you everyone for sharing your food stories.
  22. I feel like I am only surviving day by day. This is my 9TH summer has a widow. I often think what will become of me. I have that lonely feeling inside that I never tell anyone about. They would not understand. There are some things that only those of us who have been through would truly understand. I still miss my husband every day. Thanks for sharing everyone......it helps.
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