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    05/28/2013
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  1. BrokenHeart2

    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    Didn't do much last night. Fell asleep on the couch LOL Tired from hauling in wood to keep the house warm. Furnace oil is so darned expensive.
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    MAINTAINING FRIENDSHIPS

    Hey Ben1437, I feel your pain. A few years ago I was taking a pottery course with a bunch of friends and they were all doing just what you described. I turned to one of my friends and said "Really, are you really complaining to me about what your husband is or isn't doing?" I said it loud enough to be heard by others. I must admit they changed their tune.... for a few classes anyway. People just don't get it!! They have no idea how fortunate they are. I too distanced myself from that sort of stuff as well. I just didn't want to hear it anymore. Best of luck to you Hugs
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    Widowed Jan 16, 2019.

    I have to agree with Tybec and Hachi, numbing is not the answer. From what I've read I'm concerned you are going to overdose. I remember not caring if I lived but I didn't work to harm myself. In those horrid early days I made a promise to myself to get out of the house once a day, even if just for a short walk. Wise words that stuck with me early out..... "If you're going through hell, just keep going" I said that to myself more times than I can count but eventually things started to smooth out. It was in baby steps for me but it did eventually happen. Hugs
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    Widowed Jan 16, 2019.

    So sorry Powbesh for the loss of your dear husband. What you said makes perfect sense to me. I remember feeling what you described. Take it one day at a time. You'll get there in your own time. Hugs to you
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    Stuck and still fall apart this time of year

    Hi Candice. I'm at 5.5 yrs out and I too remember you. What you're saying makes sense to me! Hugs
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    We are on this board because.......

    Why are you here? Bump
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    Today is his birthday

    So today is his 59th birthday. He died at 53 yrs old. His son is 31 today and down south with his GF's family. Nobody has acknowledged it today except his son when I wished him a happy birthday he said he's having a beer for Dad. That's it, nobody else. It's been 5.5 yrs and I guess ...........it is what it is. I spoke with a recent widower today, his wife, my friend, died in August and he didn't really want to "go there". Yeah ok..... whatever. I'm really getting tired of being there for others when nobody wants to bother being there for me. Maybe they are thinking it's been enough time that I should be "over it". It all just really sucks is all. Hugs.
  8. BrokenHeart2

    Some Advice??

    I have had very similar experience as well CW. My tolerance is low for other peoples self centered BS. Hugs
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    My father isn't doing well, need your advice

    Hey NT, just remember to not let the witch steal your peace. Sleep well!
  10. BrokenHeart2

    My father isn't doing well, need your advice

    Nope, not a horrible person and don't let the witch manipulate you either! Stick to your original plan and believe your sister! Hugs
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    Holiday question

    As I was reading your post I thought if they're old enough to stay home let them cook their own meal. Then reading 21 and 25, let them take care of themselves. And the kitchen better be clean when you get home LOL. It's time for you to start to enjoy your holidays and let them be lumps if that's their choice.
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    Time is making it harder

    Sc39 and Michael, hugs to both of you.
  13. BrokenHeart2

    FB Memorialized -Check?

    Oh good KK, yes it is so unfortunate that we have to go through this and they have to miss so much. Hugs
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    FB Memorialized -Check?

    KK you can always turn off his notifications for his special days to make it easier for you. I talked to my stepkids and then I closed his acct.. I can always re activate when I want.
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    Hi, I'm new here. Nice to meet you.

    Glad you found us GettingThere!! As you well know this is a group nobody wants to join! I hope you find a source of support with all the terrific people here! Hugs

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