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  1. Sorry you had to join us Joan but glad you found us. I used to describe it as being a fucking emotional yoyo. It was so unsettling feeling all the range of emotions. Hopefull it settles down for you like it did for me. RAM guess you shouldn't have done such a good job LOL Hugs to all!
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    Somedays are harder than others

    Ditto to LF and J3 said. They may mean well but it really is not any of their business unless you asked them for their opinion. If you didn't, why do they even care. In my early days I found people close to me thought they could just say things to me they never would have said if DH was here. I found it bothersome and weird. At the same time I do remember that early on I was emotionally thin skinned whereas now I just ignore them. Happy quilting!! Hugs
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    Moving on, Starting over... ??? Just thinking....

    Unsettling.....yes I can certainly relate to this feeling. At 6 yrs out I'm feeling stuck and not knowing where to go. RAM please don't stop 'rambling'! Your posts are so thought provoking!
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    Smear Campaign

    Wow kflex, I'm sorry you have to deal with all of this ex crazy stuff. I think I'd be getting some legal advice if I were you. You need to protect you and your children from this wackjob. Hugs
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    There are worse things than death

    Such a horrible nightmare for this family. My heart breaks for them. There are no words.
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    Proud Mom

    Congrats on your son's graduation!! I hear you about "he should be here". Really sucks doesn't it. Hugs
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    What is a “widowbago” event exactly ?

    Hi Jen, here is a link to a thread that explains 'widowbago'.
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    Hard day today

    Melissa, I'm so sorry for your loss of your DH. I seem to recall it felt like that's all I did was cry in those early days. One step/minute/hour/ day at at time. Whatever it takes to get through. Remember to drink water as crying is very dehydrating. Hugs to you and your daughter.
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    Wish I could die today

    Baby step Bubu27, yes it stays with you in different ways over time. Thank you Twin_mom for acknowledging that my signature helped you and you certainly did not mutilate it. I am rebuilding my life and it's been a tough old slog getting there. I had no idea how all consuming this widowhood can be. I'm learning that it doesn't have to define me and I'm finding my way again. Hugs
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    Emotions always so close to the edge...

    Yes, I have just come to accept this is part of who I am now. I too didn't use to be this way.
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    Not sure where to start

    Lisa, I too am so sorry for your loss. Michael was a terrific writer. Hugs
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    Broken Heart.

    Gem, keep going one day at a time. Are you getting out of the house at all? Try to find something you might like to do. Maybe trying "fake it till you make it" could help until you find what you may like to do. Baby steps. Hugs
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    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    Didn't do much last night. Fell asleep on the couch LOL Tired from hauling in wood to keep the house warm. Furnace oil is so darned expensive.
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    MAINTAINING FRIENDSHIPS

    Hey Ben1437, I feel your pain. A few years ago I was taking a pottery course with a bunch of friends and they were all doing just what you described. I turned to one of my friends and said "Really, are you really complaining to me about what your husband is or isn't doing?" I said it loud enough to be heard by others. I must admit they changed their tune.... for a few classes anyway. People just don't get it!! They have no idea how fortunate they are. I too distanced myself from that sort of stuff as well. I just didn't want to hear it anymore. Best of luck to you Hugs

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