injo

How very sad! I "met"Micael on the this board and sang a part of "his" song(My dearly beloved). We met in Amsterdam irl (Widowbago 2015) en spent some days with him and Jen in Barcelona. I loved his sense of humour, it was quick and sharp. I hope he is meeting up with his son! My condolances to his fiancee. Injo

Rayspumkin, don't be bothered about "them"! You are doing the right thing! This young man is so blessed to have some one like you to stand by and be there for him!

SKIPD, that is one of the songs I had played on his funeralservice

^^^^^^^^This^^^^

AC, so glad you are back! I just read another post of you and wondered who you were, now I know, so good to hear from you!!

I understand, I'm three months ahead of you, hoping it will get "easier" somehow, someday.... (((hugs)))

BH2, are you ok??? If you need to "talk", I'm here to listen(or you can pm me) because it DOES matter!!!

Of course it hurts!!! I'm so sorry, it sucks loosing a pet and especially this way! Give your kids a big hug from me.

Sorry Jen, this is your quote(something went wrong)

Oh, this is me. This is so me. I can't stand the thought of losing anyone or anything else. By the same token, I don't want anyone or anything new to care about. No more feels, please. Just... no more. Well, count me in as well....I feel that way too and it's frightening me: to care again = the fear of loosing again, and therefore avoiding it(not even always intentionally). I wonder if that feeling will ever go away. I'm done with loosing, I have lost to many.

Sending you all the strength you need, SimiRed, hope that it will go like you want it to go on Monday. You are incredible, you have already shown that you are a powerful woman and mother. You are not going to lose it in that courtroom, you already "won", so no matter what happens in there, you will walk away with pride and dignity!

Jen, I think Maureen is right!!! Boy, do I get it!! (((HUGS)))

I understand! It's so nice to have someone to really talk to on the same level, it lightens up your day doesn't it? Hope you can enjoy eachothers company more often.

Of course that hurts! I keep wondering how people like that are thinking. They must know you get to see their pictures. Perhaps that's their problem:they don't think at all!!! I'm so sorry (((Trying)))

SVS, I think it IS different to loose the person who knew you inside out. But you are doing the best you can which is quite a lot, taking such good care of your children and being so kind and understanding to your fellowwids. Tight, tight hugs