I am trying not to be angry with God.
My Husband was a very religious man, he had a very personal and close relationship with Jesus. I was always very happy for him, and I know without a doubt that right now he is in Heaven standing beside him. I myself believe in God and would occasionally go to Church with my Gregory to make him happy and to support him.
But right now, in this moment, how can I let this feeling go? I know that it is wrong to feel this way, I do. I understand the concept that God has a plan for everyone. I even understand that while I am upset, while I am grieving, this must have been his plan... but I am angry.
How can you take my Husband from me 4 days to our one year wedding anniversary? Before the chance to even begin trying for children? He wanted children so badly, more than anything. Ten of them, in fact. Although I told him he was crazy for that. Before our honey moon phase was really even over. It feels so wrong.
He wasn't battling a life threating illness, he wasn't sick. Not that we knew of anyways. It was just a normal day. We were just getting ready for work. And next thing you know I'm screaming on the phone with 911 because my Husband is unconscious. I know I'll continue to feel this way at least until I get the autopsy report and they tell me why this has happened, and they said that can take 6-8 weeks... but I don't want to continue to feel this way... I want to let this go. But how? How do I stop being angry that my life as I knew it is over? That the love of my life has just suddenly disappeared with no explanation?
I don't want to be angry with God, but how do I stop?