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  1. Hi everyone, long time no hear from me! Life has been hectic. I've moved 4 times since I was last on here, I doonnn'ttt ever want to move again!!! I've been with someone new now for 6 months, but don't know if I can tolerate some of his behaviors. The 10th was 14 years since dh died, and we don't ever get over it or forget, do we? That also marked my grandson's 14th birthday. I still remember feeling like I was handed the circle of life on that day, and now I know I've spent all these years making it ok for my daughter who had her child that day and not healing perhaps as good as I "should"
  2. Hi everyone! Long time for me. We moved closer to his job, and I love this area so much more. We had a fight, but now he knows just how much I have been contributing and he realized he has been being a real asshole to me. I mean we are not in a romantic relationship, but if we are going to be friends who look out for each other at this point in life it can't be one sided either, ya know? So I layed down my boundaries and said NO MORE, that's why I left you 31 years ago so cut this crap out, and he did. Our son found out I was in the area and freaked out! I figured it's because he's been
  3. Hi guys, been a while since I've checked in. I'm struggling a bit with this new situation. My daughters better half told me that I was never welcome in their home ever, and this after they have lived with me 4 different times in the last 13 yrs since dh has died! This is since all the money they have "borrowed" from me and paid back in payments over time instead of the promised one payment like they got from me! Sorry for the ranting, I'm just pissed off that my daughter let her spouse speak to me like this and said NOTHING! Then the doctors here are dragging their feet after gettin
  4. Happy late holidays and Merry Christmas to everyone! Hope everyone was healthy and happy. I was at least not alone, but of coarse hurt again by my kids. I have to stop asking myself what "I" did wrong, when they are now grown and do as they damn well please! Still haven't set up a new doctor for myself, but I will this coming up month. I am enjoying the adjusting to the temperatures and being in the mountains verses the constant heat and humidity. Wishing all of you a blessed New Year, and I will be back to update
  5. I actually had a very similar situation, with the exception of me helping to raise his kids part time. When dh got sick and he would call them to come and see him they would not take the time to do it and they were only 20 - 30 minutes away. Yet my son , whom dh adopted came from several states away many times and had to get permission from the military! So my 2cents on this is , respect your dh's wishes and leave them out of it! If after becoming adults they wanted contact they could have sought him out, and they didn't! With today's technology they could have found their
  6. I'm so sorry Rob Don't know if you read my story, but I went through something similar. I remarried and it lasted just over 5 years. Started out good, but overnight it changed. He started saying awful, nasty, things to me, and when I confronted him he would deny he had done any of it, and start screaming at me, and hitting the walls in MY house. I knew at one point there had to be someone he was seeing because of the way he was behaving and I knew I deserved better, and I would rather be alone. I finally told him to get out of my house and he said no, said some really awful th
  7. Glad to hear your ok and congrats on getting a new kitty Sorry to hear about the funk, hope it passes quickly for you. Will keep you lifted in my prayers... Adjusting to the colder temps, , aging hurts a little with this, lol BTW, what's the kitty's new name?
  8. Keeping you as well as all the others in CA in my prayers arneal ❤️. Keep us posted as and when you can. Much love to you and yours ❤️
  9. thanks t2b, sorry to hear about your dad. Wish I could have shared in the wine and chocolate with you
  10. Thanks arneal Yeah my son has heard himself, and he just doesn't care! My dh and I have had that boy in counseling and spent years on trying to set his ass straight! He has taken so much time from the other kids, from us, the kids at school, and now who ever else. Ironically, I'm now staying with my ex husband, the biological father of my son (children)😮😏 We always remained somewhat friends , even when my dh adopted the two kids the ex and I had together. My dh was raised in the same situation so there was a lot of understanding there. The ex had some issues he neede
  11. Hi everyone! I made it to where I was headed, but as soon as I parked we realized that my transmission was going, oiy.... Thank goodness I made it before it went!!!! I know that I will never have anything to do with my sister ever again, and that is sad and heart breaking in a lot of ways but has to be that way. She is so angry and abusive, and no one deserves that. It was so bad that I waited until she was gone from her house and left under the secret of darkness 😥, scared and alone in the rain, but I did it and I made it! I'm close to where my son is, and he has no idea I
  12. Thanks arneal I just don't understand my sister, it really saddens me and breaks my heart. I had walked away from her over 15 years ago because she was so negative and nasty. I was there for her when her husband died, sat with her while he was in the hospital for over 6 weeks every day, stayed with her for over a month after, helped her do his funeral. But I had to draw the line when she wanted me to go and hang out in the bars with her and she pick up men! I don't do bars, never have, and me I was married! Then she slept with the one man her husband had asked her NOT to and he was marrie
  13. UPDATE!!! I'm leaving here! My sister is so angry with everyone and everything in life that she is so negative and nasty that I can't take it! She has physically attacked me, constantly verbally attacks me, and then expects me to cook and clean and pay half of everything! UMMM NO! I walked away from her almost 16 years ago and now within the week it will be for good. I have tried to talk to her calmly, yet she yells, cusses me out about things that have NOTHING to do with me. I go to my room, then she starts texting my phone until I block her, writes me letters saying how i
  14. He (landlord/mgr) has 30 days. He is really pissed right now cause I busted him on over 10 FL statues and laws that he and the owner were breaking. I was willing to let them keep 2 months of rent at $850 and give me back 4 months plus my deposit of 1 month, but he thinks he gets to keep it all. OH HELL NOOO! LOL I showed that it was clearly him that breached the lease and not me, so stay tuned.... I will have to say I'm loving the cooler temps here , now winter will take some adjusting but I CAN DO IT! My doctor did give me another month of meds to give me time to get set up
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