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  1. Gotta love this one! So I see the landlord this morning and I tell him there will be a moving truck in the parking spots on Saturday and again on Tuesday. He proceeds to tell me he didn't know I was moving! I looked at him and said "bullshit". So he said well I didn't get a notice. To which I said oh yes you did, I gave a 60 day when I only had to give a 30 day, I called you on the 1st of July, and when I did the written you weren't around so your "office assistant " had me put it in her box so she has it and I have the text on my phone to prove it, plus text from her saying you both know it! As well as a copy of it on my phone! Shut his ass right up, he just doesn't want to give me any of my money back! Then I said to him when your not available what is the point of your "office assistant"? He wouldn't answer, then he says quietly the spots will be open for the trucks. Oh the trials and tribulations, and he went around bitching about me leaving to several other tenants here! oiy.....
  2. latest update is NOT good. was in the ER last night from 8 until 3 am. I hurt my leg and caused a blood clot in my leg!😥 It's painful and scary! ! ! Can you believe it? A dvt,, so now blood thinners, a very sore leg, and have to be very fricking careful. It's like damn I feel like I can't win for losing, but I'm not giving up the fight! Oh and my car was in the damn shop again too! I had it worked on a few months back, and they pissed me off cause they talked to me like I didn't know what I was talking about cause I'm just a little oh woman, ya know? Well they had to fix it right and this time for free plus the lever that opens the hood to my suv that they broke and I could prove it cause I replaced the battery a week prior and still have the receipt! I told them , don't under estimate this woman, cause you will lose, lol.... Anywho, I have my leg prooped up ice on it, taking Eliquis to dissolve the blood clot , which I will have to now take for at least 3 months or more, and still moving forward! Thank goodness my sister took a week off because now we will have to stop a LOT for me to walk around, LOL, sniffle sniffle😪 , but still fighting and going forward
  3. sudnlysngl


    Although I completely agree with what you are saying you left out one thing. I must say the most important thing in my opinion. The lesson my dear starts at HOME when people are young! The things you speak of here are taught out and about in society, but when one is taught properly at home, then they know what to do when faced with the situation when it is presented to them whenever or however in life! Just saying, I know for me that's when I was taught no matter how uncomfortable it was, and I was prepared when the time came for me at work when I was even younger.... Sadly it just doesn't happen anymore.
  4. sudnlysngl


    this sentence says it all.....
  5. Oh arneal you must remember we are only human! trying 2 , I bow to you if you have mastered the art of staying quiet , time for you to write a book for the rest of us girls! I truly can't stand being in this negativity place , be it this apartment situation, the manager and his sidekick, or others! It always makes me think of an old saying, "misery loves company!" On another note, it's a lot of great news from all of you and seeing you back on the board , 14 more days and counting for me, and yes I'm counting down now, lol.... I'm getting excited...
  6. Oh arneal I almost forgot to tell you this one, LOL Through all the crud of the going on's I still gave thanks to God for everything every single day, it's just something I've always done. So during all of this I've been trying to sell my camper, and guess what??? I've sold it The guy will be stopping by at my daughter's right after I leave with a bank check made out to me and getting it, but we have been staying in touch, and I got asking price, very happy girl, so please say a prayer that he doesn't back out at last second please, thanks.....
  7. Hey arneal, thanks for asking . Busy as heck! I went to the court house and got the info on the owner of the complex, sent a letter with the statues, pictures of the place, and stating how much money I expect back on the day of the walk through or I will go forward with a law suit against all of them and win! Oh some of the pics showed snapshots of the text msgs from his staff harassing me and cussing me out! I sent it overnight with signature requested, If he is a smart man, I'm sure he will give me my money! The neighbor moved, but profusely apologized to me several times before he left. He also left his place a disaster, LOL. He lived there for 13 years, and looks like he didn't take hardly anything out of there, or hardly ever cleaned that place, and now the jerk of a mgr./landlord is stuck having to clean it out , ha ha ha.... My daughter hasn't been any help, so I decided to hire help where I could afford to. and I have only pots and pans left to pack. Then on the 27th I pick up a small moving truck and movers will be here to load it and then meet me at daughters to unload it into the sheds I had put up there over a year ago. Then I load my clothes in my auto, and do a quick vacuum wipe down of the bathroom, which is cleaner then when I got it, and do the check off with the asst. mgr. Turn over keys, and hopefully get a check, and leave. Pick up my sister next day at airport and start driving north, whoo hooooo!!!!!! How's that for an update? Glad you are doing well, and girl if that is spells you go through, then most of us are right there with you LOL... Let's gather round the cauldron, he he he..... so a kitty would be the purrfect pet🐱
  8. sudnlysngl


    We now live in a world where "women" have had enough of cutting people some slack for their bad behaviors! It's time for these people to learn how to act appropriately with others and when they don't then to be spoken to about it . Also we little oh women are sick and tired of being knocked down for putting up with these ignorant behaviors towards us when we don't just brush them under the rug for men and their jobs so they can be kept so superior in society. When we make a mistake then fix it, learn from it and do better. Lets all make this a better world.....
  9. sudnlysngl


    Slack??? really? You say you work in a field with the public, then I say learn some tact! Especially now that you have been through this yourself..... just saying😏 Maybe an "I'm sorry to hear that", then move on to the business at hand...
  10. sudnlysngl


    NO, it wouldn't be worth your time or the tissue you wipe your behind with! When I went to our bank to deposit an insurance check one of the head tellers said to me , "your not going to spend this are you?" So I responded to her and her ignorance with , " tell you what it's a check for my husband dying, you can have it if I can have my husband back!" Let me tell you everyone turned and looked at her like she was the dumbest person in the world, and she turned the reddest I have ever seen! It took her over 2 years before she would speak to me again. So if you still bank there , just look at him everytime like what's wrong with you? yet with a smile....
  11. Thanks arneal I'm so stressed and worn out from all this crap! I have the right to leave this place, it is NOT a prison camp, or a jail! I don't get why this landlord/manager and his assistant won't leave me the hell alone. If he sees me going to the mail box , he comes out and starts following me down to the mail box! It has gotten so bad that I now don't take my trash out until 2 in the morning, and check my mail then! For heavens sake that is putting me in danger! He has another tenant, an older weird man stand across from my apartment stand and stare at my place. Now when I see him out there I open my door and start waving at him, he gets all embarrassed and starts walking away! The police department here are not any help, so don't know what I can really do. The elderly lady across from me is trying to watch for me, but he has told her he's going to raise her rent cause he thinks he can get more rent because of a new business that came to this area. That's illegal and there are laws and statues against that! I'm calling a thrift store tomorrow to come and get my furniture, giving it all away, just so I can get out of here. I feel like I'm giving my life away 😪, At least I have somewhere to store my personal belongings that I can come back and get in a year, now I just got to get the heck out of here, and get that letter sent to the owner of this complex!
  12. So I see the guy next to me this morning who will be moved out Monday, and step out to say bye to him and let him know I've enjoyed his conversations and will move my automobile for his moving truck. He then says thanks, but he doesn't want to chat with me anymore because the landlord approached him saying I went around talking to and about everyone! HOW STUPID AND CHILDISH! I don't know but 3 people here and don't do crap like that! He went on to say he has been here for 13 years and wants to leave peacefully, and I said it never happened but I totally understand and wished him well. I have a certified letter going out Monday to the owner of the complex showing the harassment, breaking of the laws, and breech of lease by his management. Demanding my prepaid rent back when I vacate on the 28th or I will precede with a lawsuit! I sighted several statues as well! Sending a few pics of the place in bad condition and not ready as promised and some pics of the nasty text from his staff as well, that will show the acts of harassment and intimidation by them! I will be so glad to get the hell out of here!
  13. So I see the other guy on the other side of me last night. He lives on the very end of the building. These are single story 2 bedroom apts. He tells me someone hit his brand new car the same night (sunday night) right by his driver side mirror! Like they punched it! Oh he is moving out too!!! Coincidence? I think NOT..... I am counting the days, but I have to be honest the stress is really starting to get to me and making me sick. My daughter is of NO help. So I am in this all alone in this by myself but I will get through it, I am determined to make it damn it My sister and her man have their plane tickets to fly in on the 29th of aug. and we will leave from the airport to start driving north from there, stop for the night and be at their place the next evening. She has taken a week off of work for us to spend time together, and I'm really looking forward to really reconnecting. Thank You All for your Love, kind words, and Support! It really has always meant so much to me, and I couldn't have made it without you. xoxoxo That doesn't mean I'm leaving, lol....
  14. Well I go out to my vehicle this morning, and the landlord is my neighbor. I notice that someone has hit my vehicle! More than likely it was the landlord because he is the one who parks next to me! The damage is not horrible, yet I noticed it. It's right at the gas cap, and he had backed in his truck which he NEVER does! He has taken out a lamp post here in the complex and another post of some sort. The problem is I didn't see him actually do it, so I don't think I can really say anything. At least that is how it pretty much works here in the state I'm in! I just can't wait to get the hell out of here...

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