Jump to content

Melissa brown

Members

0

Followers

31

Content Count

Country

Genre

Zodiac

About Melissa brown

Trying to navigate this life without my husband and helping my 3 children thrive without their dad.

Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    03/21/2019
  • Name of Spouse
    Damon
  • Date Widowed
    March 21, 2019
  • Cause of death
    Rectal cancer
  • Spouse's Age
    41


Recent Profile Visitors

Recent Profile Visitors

72 profile views
  1. @Bubu27 I have had something happen that has to be damon. The day after he passed my family was talking about text messages on our phone from him. I had none because I've been with him 24/7 taking care of him and I guess I deleted the texts ( I never keep texts). Anyways, while looking at my phone it randomly restarted. Suddenly old text messages appeared on my phone from damon. I know it sounds crazy, but this really happened. I have no doubt it was him. Melissa
  2. Melissa brown

    There are worse things than death

    Unimaginable and so sad. I am so sorry.
  3. Melissa brown

    Probate court

    I am sure this topic has been discussed, although I didn't find anything. But what was your experience with probate court?My husband didnt have a will. So it has to go through probate. I went there today and am overwhelmed with what they told me. Apparently my 18 year old owns a part of our house. It's just crazy. Is there any tips or suggestions? Of course the one person I can talk to is no longer here. Thank you to this forum for all the support. Melissa
  4. Melissa brown

    No will

    @laurie27 I actually did see a lawyer but did not hire him to do the paperwork. I have considered it though.
  5. Melissa brown

    Stuck Again

    What are these camps about and do you just Google them to find one?
  6. Melissa brown

    First vacation without my husband

    @Julester3 if you dont mind me asking, what kind of therapy did your family do? Grief therapy? I know we would benefit from that but I can't think clearly enough to know where to begin.
  7. Melissa brown

    First vacation without my husband

    You guys are great and really do help me feel better. I'm just so lost. If I try to imagine if it were me who passed what would I want for my family? I would want happiness and peace for my family. And I know he would too. It's just so strange being the sole parent who makes the final decisions on everything. I'm sure over time that it will get easier. Melissa
  8. It's been almost a month since my l lost my husband damon. A friend of ours sent my family to their timeshare for spring break this week. I have so many mixed emotions about him not being here. I feel sad. And scared. And can not believe we are in this position. Please help me with your words of wisdom. Melissa
  9. Melissa brown

    one month in

    @Mattie , thank you for sharing what works for you. I like to hear what helps others to see if it would help me too. I did start taking some medications,which help. I am really sorry about losing your husband at such a young age. Life just isn't fair. @laurie27 I am glad you have animals to take care of. It does make you get out of bed. My kids help me keep moving, although hard. Hugs to you both.
  10. Melissa brown

    Memory blanket

    Great idea Laurie.
  11. Melissa brown

    one month in

    @laurie27, Hi Laurie. Thank you for your response. I am sorry that you are here too. I am sorry we are all here. But I am grateful for this forum. Taking care of myself is the hardest. Sounds crazy but even showering is hard to do.
  12. Melissa brown

    Memory blanket

    Hi, I was wondering if anyone made a memory blanket or bear made from their loved ones tshirts or clothes? Our son graduated high school in June and I want to give him something special that reminds him of his dad. Any suggestions?? Melissa
  13. Melissa brown

    one month in

    Mattie, it's been close to a month for me. I am miserable. I wanted to ask you how are you doing now? My husband was 41. He died of cancer. I keep telling myself this will get easier. I hope it does. Melissa
  14. Melissa brown

    A strong woman

    Bubu27, I more times than often feel the same way. I am angry this happened to us. It will be three weeks tomorrow for us and I would do anything to have him back. Does talking about Ken help you in anyway? I know talking about damon helps me. If you want to send me a private message telling me all about ken, I would love to read it. Hugs. Melissa
  15. Melissa brown

    Proud Mom

    Although not physically, I believe our loved ones remain with us spiritually. It's for us because we can't see them or hear them. My husband was trying to get to my sons high school graduation ( which is in june). He didn't make it. Its heartbreaking for me that he won't physically be there. You are so right, all of this sucks!

About Melissa brown

Trying to navigate this life without my husband and helping my 3 children thrive without their dad.

Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    03/21/2019
  • Name of Spouse
    Damon
  • Date Widowed
    March 21, 2019
  • Cause of death
    Rectal cancer
  • Spouse's Age
    41


Recent Profile Visitors

72 profile views
×

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use.