Jump to content

swilson

Members

0

Followers

190

Content Count

Country

Genre

Zodiac

Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    Sept. 12 2014
  • Cause of death
    Heart attack


Recent Profile Visitors

The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

Enable
  1. swilson

    2,194 days.......

    It was 8 months to get control of the tasks of daily living, but I didn't feel "NOT married" for another 2 years.
  2. swilson

    When to Tell

    18 months out for me and the person already knew I was a widower. In this small town my late wife's' family knew before I could tell any of them, lol. All of them were okay with it. Happy Thanksgiving hugs to all.
  3. swilson

    Update and photo

    Congratulations! Wishing all of you many happy years.
  4. swilson

    slapbet! (If you know what I mean......)

    Yep, sort of like happy Slapsgiving!
  5. swilson

    Three plus Months Sober!

    WTG Bear! I tried self medicating with booze after she died, just made things worse.
  6. In my dreams she shows up just for a "segment" but weaves in perfectly.
  7. swilson

    The house and WTF

    {hugs} BrokenHeart2. When it was time to order new checks with my name only, I remember thinking that it erased one more thing connecting us as a couple.
  8. swilson

    Confessions of a widow

    Not proud of this but had to use a bath towel to dry a few dishes :-[
  9. swilson

    Rambling....again

    Mercy, you're so right that we aren't in control. You have a lot pulling on you and hope you can find some solutions that bring you comfort.
  10. swilson

    What's Your Grief Soundtrack?

    I'll have to check some of these on YouTube. I submit "Comfortably numb" by Pink Floyd.
  11. swilson

    Facing another loss

    I'm sorry you're both facing this. Someone had the tag line "I'd like to punch cancer in the face" and I agree
  12. swilson

    Where will you be buried?

    I told the boys it didn't matter as long as they carved my departure date on our monument. They can share ashes or scatter.
  13. swilson

    Have you taken care of "things"?

    It's a sobering thing to do but a relief to know my son will be looking after things (just in case).
  14. swilson

    Tattoo?

    Here's the link for memorial ink. http://widda.org/index.php/topic,56.msg26041.html#msg26041
  15. swilson

    Tattoo?

    Hey jgib, late start for me at 54. I think there's a thread on here for memorial ink. Congrats on taking the step.

Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    Sept. 12 2014
  • Cause of death
    Heart attack


The recent visitors block is disabled and is not being shown to other users.

Enable
×

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use.