donswife

Yes I do find widda helpful even after 4 years, In the early days , months it truly got me through some very dark times. Just to know you have people that understand your deep grief and that you are not crazy with what you are feeling is such a gift. I have met some wonderful people here I do see at times it seems to go quiet and I hope that doesn't stop people from reading or posting.

So sorry to hear this, truly unfair

It was so difficult to go out in the beginning. Seeing the world is still moving as you are in a walking haze. Try and be easy on yourself , this is hard but we are here to listen. I have printed out a saying that one of the wonderful members had I still look at it on tough days but those days are further apart now "On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possible endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days is 100% and that is pretty good " Take Care , Nancy

Birthdays are so tough , they should be here to celebrate them but they aren't and it's just not fair ! Hugs to you

I am so sorry I will not be able to attend , I do urge anyone who can ,should Go. You meet some wonderful people who just get it

It is so hard sometimes when people talk about CPR or I see it . My husband also died of a heart attack and I tried to perform CPR and I always wonder if I had done it better ....you know those always what if's . Hugs to you

Never love again from star is born.

Today will be 4 years for me. Thank you for all your post as at times I feel like it was yesterday. Just the feeling that the life we had planned really , really isn't going to happen can be hard to grasp. Feels as if I kept holding on to the illusion that it would all some day feel and be the same as when he was here.

Yes ,this...I am almost 4 years out (in ten days ). It is a comfort to come here and see that I am not the only one struggling at times. Keeps me a bit sane in what has become a path and future that I never wanted to travel alone.

Yes , Seem to be missing this feeling 100 pecent these last few days ...sigh

so glad you reached out , please feel free to read and write as much as you want.Take Care

Yes , It was such a nice time with great people. Wonderful food and company ! Thank you so much

Fuck this week !!!, From poisin ivy to a head cold and then tomorrow being what should have been our 27th wedding anniversary !!! Can't even take the day off to wallow in a pity party, OK I feel better ..carry on

I am having computer issues so just Wanted to give a yes to coming Saturday I won’t need to stay at the condo as I have a place to stay