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Sandi1970

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  • Date Widowed
    3/21/2011
  • Cause of death
    Removed from L.S. after severe brainstem damage

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  1. Thanks! I haven't had any weird comments on it, I think anyone that knows me enough to give an opinion knows my reasons & the only opinion that mattered was my new husbands. He was fine if I kept my name as is! He gets me & "it" more then I ever expect. Widower in a past life? Seriously! lol
  2. So cool!!! Take it easy & just be yourself! ENJOY! Happy for you! Also cool that I decided to come do some reading tonight & there's DUCKIE! Also, so many comfortable, recognizable wids!
  3. I wore DH's chain/cross when I remarried. He always would take it and put it over my head to keep safe, when he was in the hospital or something. He said that the cross was at the perfect length to be by my ❤️. I'm also keeping his last name & adding my new husbands name. This was suggested by my new husband! We wrote our own vows and it was implied in mine that we met after tragedy.
  4. I just remarried at the beginning of the month. We have no children between us and live over 1000 miles from any family. We wanted it simple, just us & surrounded by nature. Many family and friends weren't happy about it but it was perfect for us! In the late spring, we're going to have a special dinner with immediate family, to celebrate. Make it about you both, you owe it to yourselves. I wanted nothing to resemble my 1st & pretty big wedding. The only thing that did, was the nature part but I guess that's because it's such a part of me. Congrats & best wishes.
  5. Get married again! I feels really good though... I don't think I could even wrap my head around it 6-9 months ago and then he asked and it just felt so right. I'm coming up on 7 years widowed. My journey has been amazing to look back at and realize what I've accomplished. I just know DH is smiling & proud. Never could've imagined writing this and completely believing it. lol
  6. Hey there! Yes yes yes Free bird & definitely Zappa
  7. So radio hell, huh?! I haven't been to this site in a very long time but here I am! Kinda dusty in here... where is everyone? Sleeping probably, hopefully. Michael how are you holding up?
  8. I moved recently and there the wedding dress was... What to do with it? Moved it the 1,000+ miles just so I didn't have to derail my packing efforts and sit and think. So here it is in my walk in closet. Still not sure but have thought about if I get married again, changing it up and shortening it and wearing it again. It still represents one of my fonds days ever. who knows.
  9. Wish I could, it's been too long, miss ya all. Crazy but one of the wids of this group I saw last, was wasawife. She attended the FoCoNoCo (Colorado) last May. I've always admired her adventure, living through her pictures of her travels on FB. We were having dinner and she was showing me her adventures thus far and explained where she'd be hiking before getting on a plane home. What a beautiful trip she planned, saw, hiked, etc... She looked to be in great health, most do, I guess we know sorry I'm missing it. I'll be there in spirit. Yesterday, I attended our NE OH/NW PA Bago and met Michael797. He & I talked about this one and I assured him he'd be in equally fine company. I did, however, forgot to tell you, Michael, to keep an eye on the "knife ninja", he's a shifty one ;-) great meeting you. Cheers wasawife, one helluva a sweet , friendly woman & definitely will be missed!
  10. Glad to meet you & Sandy, great time! Those other people were fun too :-) jk thanks for coming everyone!
  11. Sandy- looking forward to meeting you. I know the 1st time is scary, it was for me too. I will never forget the instant comfort I felt, after I got to meet up first with fellow wids. I hope you'll get the same! See you all soon!
  12. Ya know I never really thought much of it but I see 2:22, 3:33 4:44 etc... A lot. What gives?
  13. Yah Dave! What a sweet little story! Wishing you much happiness!
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