Guest nonesuch Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 I miss things. I miss our old house, all finished and landscaped. I miss my husband, my Mom and Dad, all the pets I've lost. I miss when we were both working and money wasn't something I worried about all the time. I miss my old life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsDan Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Solidarity. These days my sadness is broader, less sharply defined. But there. Always just there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donswife Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 "I miss my old life" couldn't have said it any better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyr Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I get it! ((((((Hugs)))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quixote Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Yeah. This. I wish so hard that life was like a video you could scroll back on. I'd do it all over again. And again. Then stop just before it gets sad. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rifatheroffour Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 sadly, perfectly stated...life just isn't quite the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Life will never be the same. I just hope I will be happy again. Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I'm with you, nonesuch. I miss having the people who really loved and cared about me. It made my life so much better. Hugs to all of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SemperFidelis Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 Yes. I miss how things used to be. Except for the part where he was miserable being "alive". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmg19 Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 ((Hugs nonesuch)). General sadness says it all. Relating to your words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayspumpkin Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 THIS!!! I am totally in sync with you... (((((hugs))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forgottenwife Posted August 9, 2016 Share Posted August 9, 2016 I miss my old life. ...Me too... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanGenie Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 Yup, I so miss my old life as well and how happy I was. Unfortunately, that general sadness is always present, sometimes lurking under the surface. I worry that I'll never be truly happy again. But then again, I was so naive "before". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jonesandjenn19781979 Posted August 10, 2016 Share Posted August 10, 2016 agreed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelby Posted August 24, 2016 Share Posted August 24, 2016 These are my same thoughts everyday, nonesuch. Kindred. Shelby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted August 25, 2016 Share Posted August 25, 2016 Been feeling much the same lately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meema Posted August 29, 2016 Share Posted August 29, 2016 Me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladybug Posted August 30, 2016 Share Posted August 30, 2016 I miss my old life more than I could ever say. My life has been changed forever. I miss my sweet husband and the life we had together. My husband had a good job, and he always made sure we had things.....he was a very thoughtful man towards his family. I was blessed to have had him for my husband. I only hope now to make him proud of me. I try and have a good life, but it is not the same. I am sure everyone understands that feeling. One day at a time....there really isn't any other way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julester3 Posted August 30, 2016 Share Posted August 30, 2016 Totally missing my husband this week. Our lives seem the same except that there is this void that was his presence that is just gone. The house is even quieter with him no longer here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AprilRain Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 Nonesuch, your topic title describes me exactly. There's a lot I don't miss but so much that I do. And although I go through life doing what needs to be done and smiling when it's called for, I wear a cloak of sadness at all times. You are not alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanGenie Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 After two great weeks of vacation that was a total escape from reality, the post-vacation, general sadness has returned. Reality can suck sometimes... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Justme2 Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 I try to think that lightning can strike twice, that we could meet someone romantically that would make some of the sadness turn to great times again. I guess that would be in the hope category. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sikeuritgadeun Posted September 9, 2016 Share Posted September 9, 2016 The sadness is always with me and it always will be. The best days of my life were happy knowing that we were together. It hasn't been the same since he died. I miss him more everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanGenie Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Dawned on me last night that what I miss most is that person who cares about me unconditionally. Just to have someone each day say "I'm thinking of you and I care." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sikeuritgadeun Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 JeanGenie, Yes that is what I miss. I have no one that cares for me, that thinks about me. It is such a lonely feeling knowing ihat I now walk through this life alone. It's very scary at times. After all this time I still cry. I miss him so much. He will be in my heart forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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