RyanAmysMom Posted July 19, 2017 Author Share Posted July 19, 2017 He's a dumb ass. Boys are stupid. Maybe it's time to try men. So, you like older dudes? 8) : 8) Oh, Bear! You crack me up! But you're exactly right - he's a dumb ass - I asked him very directly what in the hell happened, and he admitted that he felt he was in over his head - I don't have time for games...... So....... older dudes? Depends on how old! I'm a very young 45, and I'm convinced that men just don't mature past age 14.... even my LH never really did! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Tomás Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 So....... older dudes? Depends on how old! I'm a very young 45, and I'm convinced that men just don't mature past age 14.... even my LH never really did! Kinda true. I just turned 61. 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missmybecky Posted July 21, 2017 Share Posted July 21, 2017 Girls are too! I met a girl through mutual friends last fall, turns out we went to the same highschool but didn't know each other. I was seeing someone else at the time, that relationship ended in March. She is a single mom of 2 and we became friends, mostly because she is fun and likes to do the same things that I do. We started to do a lot of things together and talk and text daily. We get along great, make each other laugh, and are in a similar life situation. She started to get close and then almost as fast she started to pull away. When I tell her that I am interested in her she tells me that she wants to be friends, recently she told me that I was starting to make her uncomfortable, but she led me on pretty heavily. I have a strong feeling that she is looking for someone to "save" her and she keeps a lot of guys on the back burner. So it goes. What sucks is we have a lot common friends and they feel the need to reach out to me and tell me that her and I would make a cute couple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monique Posted July 21, 2017 Share Posted July 21, 2017 Missmybecky, are you sure she realized you were attracted to her? I've been guilty of doing that same thing to guys before when I suddenly realized they were interested in more than just friendship. It's not the nicest thing to do to someone, but sometimes I just panic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanAmysMom Posted July 22, 2017 Author Share Posted July 22, 2017 MissmyBecky - I totally agree! I'm not perfect either! I admit to having toyed with boys when I was younger - just like what you're describing...... I just can't see doing it as a grown adult.... Sorry that's happening to you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missmybecky Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 Hi Monique, Yes, I am sure. I used to ask her questions to get a response and start a conversation. I remember sending her a text a month or more ago and she replied "random." to which I replied, I'm just interested in you. This is going to be weird, I am just going to have to get over it. My friends that introduced us are my buddies for over 25 years and she has other mutual friends with me, so I will be seeing a lot of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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