RyanAmysMom Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 Had the most wonderful date with my two teenage kids tonight - And toward the end of the evening, I was reminded of how much their dad would laugh at certain things they'd do.... And it hurt so deeply, so sharp...... Will it ever not hurt to remember? When will I get those "sweet" memories? I want to remember and smile...... I'm so tired of crying.... 3 years 2 months 2 hours........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 Yes RAM, I remember feeling just as you are now. I wondered if it would ever just not hurt remembering. I can say yes, most of the time now I don't get that searing pain thinking back on our life together. There are still things I remember that still kind of hurt but for the most part now I fondly remember with a softness in my heart. Hugs 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 I totally understand. I'm in my 10th year now. It hurts most when his son is hurting. Otherwise for the most part, I'm at peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trying2breathe Posted September 14, 2018 Share Posted September 14, 2018 Five years and most memories bring a smile. And then occasionally - a memory brings on tears, usually involving the kids and us as a family and how he should be here with us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloact Posted September 15, 2018 Share Posted September 15, 2018 Yes, the time will come when a smile crosses your lips before a tear falls. There are still times that are challenging for me. The loss will always have the hurtful days vut most will be good ones. I miss our life together. That will never, ever go away. It's a learn to live with it thing for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captains wife Posted September 24, 2018 Share Posted September 24, 2018 Its weird - sometimes I smile reflecting on remembering my late husband, my son's Dad....sometime I cry. (I'm over 6 years out). Yesterday my son and I were talking about Dad memories and it was very sad and I also continue to wonder what life would have been like if he was still with us. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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