My Dad died

[Lmsmdm]

My Pop died 11/23....as much as I hate to say it, it was a blessing. He was in a lot of pain, and dialysis had taken its toll.... still, I am heart broken. 

 

Now here comes the shitty part. I want to see his will....I have no contentions of disputing anything....I just want to see it....how do I ask my step mother without stepping on any toes? 
 

Just putting this in writing makes me feel like a giant piece of shit...she is a good woman, and she took phenomenal care of my daddy....in their weird way they loved each other.... 

[soloact]

I'm sorry for the loss of your dad. It's always a sad thing to lose a parent. 

 

I have no wisdom to offer regarding seeing his will. Being curious about the will is not a bad thing. We just want to know some things at times of sorrow. Try not to be too hard on yourself for wanting that info. It's ok that you do. You have posed that you have no plans to make waves and you appreciate the care his wife provided for him. 

 

Once the will is filed it becomes public record in some states. Maybe someone at the probate court can advise you.

 

Sorry for your loss. 

[Julester3]

So sorry to hear this. No advice on the will. It doesn't seem unreasonable to ask.