ChrisV2.0

        I too have been "advised" to move on by people who have yet to find what "real love" is, let alone have it torn out of they're chest. It takes everything I have I not to lose my mind when people try to tell me some stupid plan "get over her". I constantly have to remind myself that people are trying to help no matter how clueless they sound to me.

  I can say there is always something you can be doing "right" and there is always something you can be doing "wrong" in the eyes of others. It can be something simple or something not so simple. I will agree that self awareness is of massive value and anything you can do to grow that skill is beneficial. Be aware of how people react to what your saying. Sometimes you can learn more from a persons body language than the words they are saying. Communication skills are crutial. Best of luck and I hope you find everything your looking for out there!