Vettie

Mrs. Dan you will get through this. My daughter was a year old when her DH died.  He was the the stay at home Dad (as he had been sick).  She would call him at night "DA!DA!DA!".  When he died she would still cry for him when I would pick her up.  She didn't sleep through the night until she was 2.5 or three, I can't remember. These reactions should pass as she gets older.  Just know I am thinking of you and all the tough times you are having.

Everyone likes a different type.  If everyone liked the same type only two of us would be together, lol.  I cannot resist looking at a man with a goatee, bald head, big arms and shoulders...is it because that was my husband?  I don't know. If I was not initially attracted to them but they had a great personality and were very loving and considerate they might grow on me, lol.

Hey Rob, Did you send her a facebook message?

I agree it is a beautiful song.  I hope he is happy where he is.

No exciting story here.  My original name was YIslander.  Y being the first letter of my name and Islander is what we are called where I am from. I needed a change so I changed it to Vettie as it was my nickname when I was a child.

My son was 18 months and if he went in the potty he got score bar bits...he loved them.  Worked like a charm.

For me, if I was going to give out my number,  I would like to get to know someone before I meet them.  I would not want to text as alot can be lost through just typed words.  Also, I find texting annoying. I can say it quicker than I can type it.  So call and talk to me already, lol!

I really do want to thank the individuals, who I have never had any real contact with, for PMing me to let me know where we were going.  It was really appreciated...thanks again.

never mind found it!  Looks so much better!

I go to the look and layout and I can't seem to find anything that says a curve theme.  All i see is the date format and check boxes.  Can anyone help me?

Vettie here (AKA YIslander) My husband of 9 years got sick two years before he died but it was non life threatening. He got really sick over Christmas in 2011 and died January 9, 2012. He died of sepsis because he was on immunosupressants and his body could not fight the infection. Worst day of my life. Second worst day of my life was going home to tell the 7, 4 and 1 year old. The 18 year old was there when he died. It sucked. We have come a long way since then but it is still painful.