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I’m coming up on 11 years in December. Hard to believe how much I miss him after all these years. Would love to be celebrating Thanksgiving with him.
Love to all of you and wishing you peace.
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My beloved husband has been gone for 10 years. Seeing that in print is shocking.
My kids were 15, 11 and 7 when he passed away and now they are all grown up and out on their own leaving me an empty nester.
6 months ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I’ve had surgery and chemotherapy.
This diagnosis and treatment has made me long for my husband. I just wish he were here with me. I am lying here in bed with his pajamas that still have his smell after all these years. I miss him so very much.
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Today is my son’s engagement party. I was sitting in the hair salon and the lady fixing my hair wanted to know why I looked so glum. I didn’t have the energy to tell her that on this day, I really wanted my husband to be here with us. Buts he’s not and I am about to head to a party with 200 people and I need to put a smile on my face.
Lee, I wish you could see your boy all grown up and engaged to a beautiful and kind young lady.
I love you always and I miss you so very, very much.
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OMG. Thank you for all the replies so I can see how everyone else is handling this. I've been dating the same guy (who happens to be my neighbor) for over a year. He is divorced and has his kids every other week which gives us some privacy. My daughter is 14 and is in the same class as his son (major yuck factor).
I am fairly religious and my kids were taught no sex before marriage (does anyone still believe in that) so I have been careful not to set the wrong example. One night my daughter came home and I forgot to put away the overnight bag and my daughter spotted it. Now every time she goes away, it's the same question - are you spending the night with him? I can't answer the question with a straight face.
Now my boys are about to come home from college and my play time will be very limited. Am I just an embarrassed mom or should I come right out and tell them that yes - mommy is having fun. (That will really make them ill)
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Dear Bluebird,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of Wifeless. I haven't been on this board for quote a while as I lost my husband in 2007. But checking in after my friend's husband passed away, I noticed your post. I remember reading all of your posts and that of your husband. Your words of compassion and wisdom helped me during such a dark period that lasted for years. I hope that the light shines on you again and you find happiness and peace. You wrote such beautiful words about your husband. He was a wonderful man.