Sugarbell Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 I have said on here before that I dream/and remember them almost every night. My brain is like a Lifetime TV movie at night. Another faked his death dream-Even after almost 8 years. I had these a lot early on...but not one of these in years. He comes back...admits he faked his death....then admits that he had found another woman and wanted a new life. Then 8 yrs later realizes he made a mistake and came back. I go apeshit...yelling blah blah blah...but take him back and 2 months later get pregnant.(yea yea I know I am 44 with my tubes tied-it's a dream) I am devastated I am pregnant he's excited hoping it's a girl....I go apeshit again yelling "You have a little girl that you abandoned when she was 3 months . Why don't you spend some time with her? You have 8 years to make up" Then I cry more devastated I am pregnant....my 12 year old appears with a social worker from an adoption agency and says "Mom the best thing for everyone is to put this baby up for adoption"... WTF???? Now I have been wondering all day if DH cheated on me before he died (like it really matters now).... Tried to dream dictionary it....but can't find much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widowat33 Posted July 9, 2015 Share Posted July 9, 2015 Wow, that would be a hard dream to interpret. When I was younger I had a dream dictionary and loved figuring out my dreams, as I feel they can be premonitions or subconscious trying to tell you something. My husband used to dream about people dying and they would. A few months before his own death he was really upset and talking about how he had dreamt about his own death. I wish now I have pushed him more to find out what exactly he dreamt but I was too upset even thinking about it.. The other night I dreamt he left, just took off. And his family knew where he was but wouldn't tell me. I was so angry and upset. I have had many dreams about him, in some he knows he's dead, in others he doesn't, but with the exception of the last dream I always am aware that he has died. I used to hate dreaming about him because it caused so much pain when I would wake up, now I find most of the dreams comforting. Were you ever suspicious of his fidelity while you were together? My widowed friend has had similar dreams, that her partner faked his death to be with other people, but he wasn't exactly faithful while he was alive, so I always figured it was her subconscious telling her something (I don't think she was aware of him cheating and I never had concrete proof) and once he passed away I didn't think it was something that I really needed to tell her. As for your oldest in the dream, based on what you've shared here, he seems really mature and I think his role in the dream reflects that. I'm also wondering if these dreams of them faking their death are either wishful thinking that they may actually be out there somewhere or feelings of hurt and betrayal that they left in the first place. Not that I'm a dream expert Just some thoughts... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarbell Posted July 10, 2015 Author Share Posted July 10, 2015 No I never suspected a true affair. It wasn't in him to try to maintain an on the side relationship. The last 6 months before he died... He traveled lots for work...and one city he went to weekly. He ran with a shady crowd there (he got into money laundering, selling samples, etc)...They also frequented strip clubs a lot. I did wonder after he died if he had a one night stand with a stripper--or anyone while traveling. But no... Never a full fledge affair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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