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Here in Connecticut. Brought my wife's ashes back to her mother's. Had to fly with her in my back pack from houston.

 

For a while I was feeling numb and that was okay. But these last few days I honestly don't know how I'm going to make it through this. I've been surrounded by friends and family but I feel so alone.

 

Tuesday I went and got her engagement ring tattooed on my ring finger and her initials on the underside. It came out great.

 

I'll be here in Connecticut for a week helping out my MIL. But then I have to head hack to houston. I'm doing my best to take it day by day. Small victories.

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One day at a time Mac.  Try to stay focused in the now instead to the future.  I remember it being inconcevable for me to go there.  I had enough pain to deal with in the present.  Some days it was one hour/ one minute at a time.  Remember to breathe when you feel overcome with the grief and drink lots of water to stay hydrated because crying is dehydrating. 

Small victories is so right.  Hang in there!

Hugs to you.

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